Sorry for the long post this may be a multi part story as I’m going over our entire relationship and it maybe too long for one post

My back story: Basically purposed to her before Just before Covid happened. I had a good job and my investment portfolio was kicking ass. When Covid happened my job was compromised, I worked at a college and schools where shutdown for like over a year I think. I ended up getting laid off in the beginning of 2020, took me till summer 2021 to get a new full time job in my field. During the gap I worked odd jobs for my Family and friends, but mainly helped my brother with his company. I also started selling a bunch of my assets and collectibles to pay our bills and rent. I had some drama happen in my life and it distracted me from work. Now the vaccine passports came around, and I was unvaccinated because I had a heart condition that wasn’t serious enough to be exempted. I had to take one does and see how my body and heart reacted to it (which makes no sense since the MRNA vaccine was never given to humans before Covid). I wasn’t comfortable taking it (I’m not an antivaxxer). I ended up losing my job, because I refused to get vaccinated. I was out of a job again, but found a new one much quicker. Started a new job in May 2022 I believe. Then a couple Months later was offered a better job with more opportunities to grow and move up. I talked it over with my partner, and decided to take it. We got married and I started my new job. Everything was going well, until they started acting shady not renewing my company email for months, and then complaining I wasn’t performing my job well. I got let go a 3rd time within 2 years, my wife wasn’t happy about it. Now I’m still Jobless, no one has work for me to do, and I don’t want to work for my brother anymore. I’ve enrolled myself in the Armed Forces at the age of 32 and now waiting 5-7 months for the recruitment process to start.

The Drama & Relationship. I am and always have been deeply and madly in love with my wife, and still am to this day. We met at college and was love at first sight. The moment we met we were attached by the hip. I was her entire world and she was my universe. She was a virgin when we first met, and were celibate until marriage. I made sure to respect her choices, and looked after her(I wasn’t a sugar daddy to her I wouldn’t spend ton of money on her). I’d make meals and lunches for us for school dropped her off at her home or subway station. There were a few times I woke up last 2 am and picked her up 2 hrs away cause her and her friends got stranded somewhere. It took me 2 years to finally convince her to date me. She was kinda seeing this looser guy, and when he found out about me he scooped her away from me quick and dated her. She was seeing him before we started school. He ended up treating her like crap and cheated on her. I didn’t want to be the rebound guy so I waited, and was there for her as support.

I had lapsed of judgement and she found me on questionable adult sites(I never cheated on her just watched cam girls and OF). I stopped going to those sites and just stuck to pornhub. There was this fight we had I forget what it was about, but we didn’t talk or see eachother for an entire summer (May have been the adult sites not sure). She had a couple flings and came running back to me.

Fast forward to when I started my new job in 2018. Everything was still good. She would stay Monday-Thursday at my place cause it was much easier for her to commute to work from my place (30 mins compared to almost 2 hrs sometime more if there’s delays). So I would drop her off to work, and stuff somedays, cause I just wanted to make her life as easy and stress free as possible.