I started realizing I was a very smooth talker on dating apps and was able to get girls to send me pics/nudes pretty easily after talking to them for a while.

I then started having this desire to messages girls in relationships and I started using Kik/Tumblr/Instagram and I would look specifically with girls with husbands or boyfriends and message/DM them and sweet talk them. I would be super nice and polite, compliment them, and eventually lead the conversation sexual until for every 10 girls that would respond, I probably could get 1 or 2 to sext with me and send some sort of pic. I've almost got it down to a template and have an inventory of different compliments/sexual lines that seem to work. Can someone explain why I enjoy it so much?

Part of me loves the fact that I can get a girl who is suppose to be in a committed relationship to do something that she isn't suppose to be doing. I don't know if it's feeling of that power or that alpha feeling of feeling superior to their man. Nothing turns me on more than when the woman sexting says like "omg you're so sexy, your cock is so much bigger than my husband, he could never satisfy me like you could." Is this just some weird fucked up fetish or something deeper?

Note - I've never actually physically been with any of these woman, it's also just sexting and sending pics.

Edit - Just to clarify I'm in my mid 20s, living in Chicago, I have a college degree and successful career, I have a good group of friends like any normal mid 20's guy living in a big city. I don't really have a big issue getting with woman and sure real sex is great, but even I still enjoy the sexting/pics.