So after looking at some more statistics for confirmation of this rule like that of okc, (which I previously thought as a mere redpill sub thing) I'd like to ask what really are the qualities that those men have?

I can't control some important things, like face and height but what are the other things that can make a guy's way into the top 20%?

Also, I feel fucking insecure about not being born a natural chad, with a good face and shit, but gotta somehow do all I can and not fall prey to the 'blackpill' bullshit :/