first I got let you know Im not that alpha person as you will find out by reading my issue. even the environement where I live don't encourage all the the RP materials. so I camed here seeking help from you because every one of the rp members has eperiences with women.     I have a relation ship with this girl for 1 year now.the first months we had alot of problems because she has used to miss behave so I WORKED ON HER AND SHE CHANGED alots but the probleme was one of her female friend. this friend is a slut and a gold digger. and she had very bad influence on my GF . so I tried to pull my girl away from this girl. because I thought my job is saving my gf. and she agreed that this friend is bad influence and we agreed she must cut her from her life. but then she kept the minimal contact with her like facebook messaging and phone conversation one in awile. but she promised me she will never hang out with her any more.     yesterday my gf told me she is out with two of her friend. but Im sure she went with this bad friend and her BF. I didn't confront her with that because she will deny and get deffensive.     my probleme is that I don't want to know why she lied . I just want to help her stop lying on me. she is a good girl but she has a bad side too. can I help her get over her issues and how could I do that.     I know in trp when a girl is not honest you gost her until she admitted . or you next her.    in psychology when a girl lye is an issue . you confront her and punish her.      what do you think about this situation