Alright, this is going to be my final post here for a long while. I've read the sidebar and all the top articles which released withing the last 6 months. I know all the theory and I successfully applied them, physically and mentally.

This lead me to successfully make girls emotionally invest in me, literally begging for my time and attention. The only thing I just can't get done is escalating into sex. I would cook with them, have some vino, kino, verbal escalating etc but the very final step kills me. When I feel like the time has come to move things to the next level, my brain would find absurd excuses why not to do so. Even if I know that she wants me to finally start taking her, I get too anxious which kills my mood and we end up talking until things get awkward.

I love having them around, using them for companion and making things more fun. They get hooked, they want me, I can see it in their eyes and actions. But sexless dating is bullshit after some time. I don't want them use me for resource and then fuck some other chad.

How do I stop giving a fuck about this, switch my brain off and make my dick start thinking for me so I can do what I want but subconciusly am afraid of obviously?!

btw, if I'm drunk, this issue becomes less of a problem because my brain gets shut down.