I met this girl a while ago through friends. Long story short she adds me on fb invites me over, I go we make out she grinds on top of me, when I try to escalate further she shuts me down. I tone back and try again, she says No, not tonight.

I posted again about this and people told me she might have had issues, either on her period or she was not shaved or what not, and because she seemed into me I decided to give her one more shot.

I wait a week and I text her to meet, we take a walk in the city and we circle around back to her place. i make an excuse to to go upstairs and am in. We start making out. This time my hand is in her pants, she pulls it out. I tone it down and I go back in. I explore for a while and she lets me for a minute, but as I escalate further she shuts me off again.

That's it. I stop kissing her and I act pissed(don't know if this was proper). She then says, it's not you, it's me. i say what? She says "the problem is with me."

I lean back to the couch to think for a minute, she leans on me. "I have to go, not sure if the problem is with me or not" I say.

"No no, this had nothing to do with you"

I left just saying goodnight, she was standing there expecting a kiss a hug I don't know what.

I don't get this man, I really don't. I am not the most experienced guy, but she isn't either I think. I don't know if she is hurt, if she is a virgin or not. One thing I know is that her pussy is shaved alright.

She has no problem kissing for a long time but won't let me go further? What are we? Twelve? We are half way through our twenties. I don't get it. Kissing? The first time she shut me down a week ago we were kissing and she was grinding on top of me for almost an hour.