Coffee before actual date?

MrAgamemnon · 2017-10-29T10:05:39+00:00

Real date? Slow escalation?

Man. Get a coffee and fucking escalate.

RylanBlackwood · 2017-10-29T10:13:17+00:00

Fuck going to a coffee if I'm honest. Go for a date in the early evening since there's a higher chance she'll be available. Go for cocktails in an interesting venue like a Caribbean bar. Everyone goes for a coffee in a boring ass cafe. I'd also recommend going to two venues to keep things interesting, and when you lead a woman into a different location then attraction escalates massively. It's almost like a psychological trick that you're already a couple. And before you turn up to the date never tell her where your going, keep it a surprise. However if she feels too uncomfortable not knowing where she's going to tell her your going for a coffee, but surprise her with cocktails instead. Women love cocktails mate. It's just science.

lsarcreator · 2017-10-29T22:16:47+00:00

You do the coffee because it lets both of you feel each other out (no pun intended), and if everything goes well then you can go to the date.

On the other hand if nothing goes as expected then you find an excuse to gtfo and move along.

Title	Coffee before actual date?
Author	practicemoose
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	October 29, 2017 8:34 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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