people don't call out the phenomenon of older women dating younger men because it is not a common enough preference

an 30 year old woman looking 15 is an advantage to her than if she looked 30, until the same can be said for males, it's not a problem on the same scale.

not saying it's a good rationale but people simply notice what is common a lot more.

i guess if they can psyop women to see 15 year old boy or their looks as high status like it is for women, then maybe you would see it being called out more.