Here's the article. There are points I agree with and disagree with about this article, but either way it's an interesting discussion

A couple of the points--both the premise that the patriarchy and objectification of women drives female sexual predators and the premise that romantic feelings / emotional connection drives female sexual predators--are part of the ideas that lead to not seeing these kinds of women as predators: they're the victims of social oppression; they're really in love with the boys and mean no harm

In terms of female offenders being driven by the patriarchy, it's a hypothesis that has no clear way of being proven. But there is a study that found that men reported being sexually coerced / forced by their partners at higher rates in cultures where women held higher status. Assuming most men are heterosexual, that would imply that women rape their partners more in societies where they were generally less subjugated and already had power

And it seems to be that the whole "emotional connection" thing is a matter of perspective: a man texts an under-aged girl that he loves and wants a relationship with her, and people say he's of course lying and grooming her. A woman does the same, and now it's proof that she actually loved the boy and is seeking a real connection

Not to mention that lately at least there have been many cases in the news where the women sexually abused multiple boys, so even serial offending by women is not very uncommon

I wouldn't call the gender stereotypes that restrict and harm both males and females to be the patriarchy, but I do agree that society's tendency to see women as lacking sexual agency, to subscribe all sexual expression from women as romantic, and the assertion that all men and boys should be constantly driven by a desire for sex with every available woman to be a significant factor in why people can't see female sex predators as actual predators

I think the second to the last paragraph especially hits the mark. There have already been books and films etc. of women like this, instead portrayed either as victims themselves or as romantic characters. Another depiction like this wouldn't have been controversial at all