Anti-feminist shower thought: if women want the kind of life that other women envy, are feminists actually trying to change women to want the kind of life *they* have?

The women that have a problem with what marriage represents seem to be disgusting old hags, the women who hate men the most seem to be butch lesbians who are angry that they aren't men, the women promoting promiscuity seem to be loose women with regret.

Is there just an army of miserable, bitter women whose sole purpose is to change the world because they can't change themselves? And are women simply falling for it and allowing themselves to be manipulated into misery?