My wife and I decided to amicably divorce, last night after years of a mediocre friendship. We love each other as people we just want something more. We have a 3 yo son. This morning I asked her to go on a road trip so that we could listen to self help marriage books while on the road. 5 love languages for example. This is a hail Mary attempt to save something I'm not sure either of us at this point want to save except for the fact we can tell our son we tried. My wife is more checked out than I am , this post is more for documenting my thoughts and maybe some advice on other audiobooks /marriage retreats?