Guys, I need some advice. I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years about three weeks ago (she cheated on me). Although at the conscious level I feel fine and I'm glad it happened... I wake up alarmed every night at 4am to check her side of bed is she is there.

Right after break up I have installed Tinder and been texting some girls to forget about my ex. I have slept with two of them and they are beautiful, but I just don't feel it...

Having sex with other girls after 4 years was a no brainer for me, but I wonder if I would feel better if I just don't think about girls for 2 months and just focus on improving myself to feel more confident and empowered.

I pressure myself to fuck as many girls as I can now when I'm single, because that's the most obvious thing I couldn't do when I was in relationship. But I'm not sure it's working, i don't wanna end up chasing girls.

What do you think about making one month break - just for me: working out everyday, working hard on my job I really like, etc.

These tinder meet ups fuck up my career goals and fitness goals. Or should I balance. Sorry for the chaotic expression. Marcin