Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year, in all honesty she is one of my best friends. I love being with her and her me, but I realize to keep things fresh we need to do our own things from time to time.

Now ever since I swallowed TRP things have been going great. She submits to me hardly ever disrespects me and if she does i handle it. She always is buying me things, cleaning and doing everything for me.

Over the weekend I told her I wanted to go to the movies some time this week. I told her monday night would probably work, she suggested a movie that she has been wanting to see I honestly didnt want to see that particular movie but nothing else good was playing. I didnt official say yes just kind of thought I would look more into the movies that were playing and decide come monday.

Monday (today) came and she asked if we were still going to the movies, well this morning a buddy of mine told me that his band was playing tn at a bar right across the street from me. I like his music and wanted to go. I told her that We might have to go another time during the week because I wanted to go to this that I wanted her to still come, but we can always go to the movies and I cant always do this. I told her let me know if she wanted to go with me. I told her if she didnt want to wait for me she could ask her sister to go.

She later asked me what time I was going and I told her and asked if she was going to come. She said "Idk yet, I really wanted to see that movie." I told her again we could go during the week when she had off. she said "I just dnt like that u did that, like i always plan my day around u so i cn see you. I never break our plans, and when someone asks if i wanna do something I say no cause our time together is really important to me" I said "Why tho i tell you to do things, u need a life too. I was with you the last 6 out of 8 days and we were supposed to hangout last night and you didnt come (we got into a talk about a girl I used to fuck and she keeps bringing it up and it caused an arguement). I am still inviting you to come, its not like im ditching you, plans have changed, we cn go to the movies any night and I cant do this any night" she said "sorry that I want alone time with my boyfriend" I said "where were you last night? dont try to make me feel bad about this" she said "okay im sorry" I said "let me know if you decide if you want to come" she said "im good" I told her I loved her and for her to have a good night ill talk to her later.

That was the end for now but I cant keep thinking about it, I feel bad in a way. She does always do whatever I want, isnt it unfair for me to do this? did I handle this okay and what should I for the rest of night. she just text me asking if im going alone? Im trying to learn from these situations can anyone give me some input?