Tinder girl says she'd rather wait a little bit longer to meet

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-12T21:32:23+00:00

Hard next. You've been talling to her for 4 days on tinder. You already failed. You should be getting numbers within 10 total messages

MetalDevils · 2017-11-12T20:42:37+00:00

I'm thinking next, however it's a bit strange she didn't just make an excuse or ignore the message, what's the best course of action?

She sounds like a cautious woman. Some will delay meeting in person. It's odd that she would use Tinder in this manner, since it's mainly used to hookup.

How long does it take for you to meet up with women from Tinder? If you generally meet a woman after a few hours or two days at most, then you have to figure out if the increased waiting time is worth it. How? Well if you generally hook up with 5's or 6's, then this woman should at least be an 8 or higher.

It's only 'worth' waiting around if the woman is more attractive than the types you usually hook up with, and if you are having success with other women in the meantime.

The biggest concern I see with this woman is that if she's this cautious before meeting you, then she will be just as cautious in person. If you generally meet a woman a few hours to a day after talking to them on Tinder, and then it takes one or two dates to get them in bed....then a woman that makes you wait days to meet, will most likely make you wait for 3 or more dates to actually hook-up. Assuming she even does that.

Typically, women only make men wait when they are more LTR focused. A woman that wants to bang a hot guy isn't going to be all that picky. If she is normally easy to get into bed, then her behavior indicates one of two possibilities:

She has a lot of male attention other than you, and she's more focused on those guys
She isn't all that attracted to you, which makes it easier to put you off.

It's hard to tell if she's LTR focused, has other guys lined up, or just isn't all that turned on by you.

Title	Tinder girl says she'd rather wait a little bit longer to meet
Author	stergaron2718
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	November 12, 2017 8:25 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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