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Head of leading feminist domestic abuse charity that receives millions of pounds in government contracts accused of mismanaging funds & fostering a bullying atmosphere

JohnKimble111

January 8, 2019
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https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/domestic-abuse-refuge-charity-boss-sandra-horley-accused-of-bully-culture-b3mj2dcfw
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Title Head of leading feminist domestic abuse charity that receives millions of pounds in government contracts accused of mismanaging funds & fostering a bullying atmosphere
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JohnKimble111

Upvotes 127
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Date January 8, 2019 12:45 AM UTC
(7 years ago)
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[–]JohnKimble111[S] 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Article text:

The head of a leading domestic abuse charity that receives millions of pounds in government contracts has been accused of mismanaging funds and fostering a bullying atmosphere.

Sandra Horley, the chief executive of Refuge, is one of the country’s highest-paid charity bosses, with a total remuneration package of more than £210,000.

Whistleblowers accused Ms Horley of using charity resources to publish a book for her own financial gain and of hiring family members for sensitive roles. Senior management routinely bullied staff, it has been alleged. The claims were laid out in a letter sent to the charity trustees at the end of 2017 signed by 13 staff members. It has since been passed to The Times over concerns of inaction.

“For a charity that empowers women in its services, the situation in head office is unfortunately very different. The atmosphere is toxic,” they wrote.

Refuge provides specialist support to victims of domestic violence. Last year 44 per cent of its £14 million annual income came from local authority contracts, in addition to funding from individual donations and corporate sponsors such as Google. It helps about 6,000 people a year through emergency accommodation, community outreach programmes, specialist caseworkers, independent domestic violence advocacy and a 24-hour helpline. However, former employees speaking to The Times claimed that the head office was an “abusive” environment where staff were “belittled” by management. Staff would regularly cry at their desks or take time off because of anxiety, they said.

The letter to trustees states that between January and November 2017 18 of the 20 staff members in the fundraising team left. Former staff allege that they were sometimes encouraged to work through the night, going home only to change before returning. Several of the whistleblowers have since sought help for their mental health.

Ms Horley used “significant staff resource and time” to re-edit and publish her book on domestic violence, Power and Control, the letter states. Despite this, profits from the book, which included the charity’s logo, went to Ms Horley rather than to Refuge.

Ms Horley’s husband, Julian Nieman, is the charity’s sole photographer and conducts photoshoots in refuges used by vulnerable women. Her daughter, Samantha Nieman, was hired as an executive assistant without an interview, according to the letter.

The Charity Commission opened a compliance case in January last year after receiving a serious incident report. After an investigation the case has now been closed. Last year Maggie Rae, chairwoman of trustees, reassured staff that remuneration packages would be reviewed. Ms Horley’s package is still worth £210,000 to £220,000, 24 per cent more than in 2016-17.

The board of trustees commissioned an independent report by the Centre for Charity Effectiveness and a series of recommendations were made. Ms Rae told The Times that the charity’s board had accepted all of the report’s findings and that its executive had co-operated in the implementation of the recommendations. “As a result . . . Refuge is in an even better position to serve its beneficiaries,” she said. Ms Horley did not respond to a request for comment.

[–]shit-zen-giggles 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fits very well with what Erin Pizzey was saying all along.

[–]DougDante 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

tweet with me to seek justice for victims of domestic abuse:

"The head of a leading #domesticabuse #charity that receives millions of pounds in government contracts has been accused of #mismanaging funds and fostering a #bullying atmosphere" Look @ukhomeoffice @10DowningStreet https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/domestic-abuse-refuge-charity-boss-sandra-horley-accused-of-bully-culture-b3mj2dcfw

[–]azazelcrowley 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is what institutional power actually looks like. For all the crap feminists throw out about men being in charge, this is what real power is.

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There are zero billionaires in parliament. But the interests of capital are represented through lobbying the government to give them tax money, which they partly pocket, partly use to shape political culture to their agenda, and partly use to lobby the government for more money again. The politicians are merely a rubber stamp process for lobbyists. The interests of capital are represented, even with zero billionaires.

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So, lets compare women and men as a group here. Womens interests receive millions every year from the government, billions even if you include the pressure placed on other institutions of government to conform to their interests.

Meanwhile, the mankind charity got about 40k, and they cut all funding to mens rape charities two years ago.

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Women as a group are in power. Men aren't. Most toxic about this is how many women seem to think its fine to "Just talk about womens issues" despite this disparity. The equivalent of "Let them eat cake".

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Okay, just talk about womens issues. Split the cash in half, and we can do that.

[–]RandomDude4u 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure we should have any charity bosses on such large salaries - attracts the wrong kind of person.

[–]RunawayGrain 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ms Horley’s husband, Julian Nieman, is the charity’s sole photographer and conducts photoshoots in refuges used by vulnerable women.

Just because we're talking about the bosslady turning the place into a toxic environment doesn't mean we can't have a timeout to imply that a man is doing something shady without any supporting evidence.

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[–]JohnKimble111[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually, a lot of refuges ban men from the premises completely and these organisations often have policies banning the employment of male staff. That in itself potentially makes this seem shady.

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