I asked for prayers over in random kindness and one you told me to come over here...well here i am 40 div (or soon to be). I'm just going to put it out there..my wife ( common law married social security has it documened that we are married, we filed joint taxes, had both names on leases, and actually told everyone we were married) of 11yrs has decided it's over...she took everything ( I let her have it all)..I am with the kids at my mom's house...she had signed over guardianship of the kids to my mom...my signature is no where on that paper...after about a month is when we split up...so here I am working trying to better my kid's life....just wondering can she come take my kids..I worry constantly about this...I could care less if she's already met someone else.. pretty sure this happened while it was just us...I'm scared shitless because she is not a worthwhile parent..had it not been for me she would have lost them to DSS along time ago...I feel I have hit rock bottom hard... someone that knows please help