I matched with a girl on tinder about 5 weeks ago. We talk, I quickly get her number and tell her I'll text her soon. 4 weeks later she texts me and says we may have a lot in common, we should hang out. I agree and apologize for not texting her for a whole month because I got really busy.

Things go great, we text all day for about 2 days in a row, then she randomly calls and asks to hang out at like 1pm while we both have the day off.

We hang out all day, talk about tons of things we have in common, smoke weed, ect, I'm not expecting a hook up at all. We discuss how we both arent the hook up type and at the age were wasting time feels counterproductive to finding a relationship with someone where we want to help eachother and grow.Things are still going great, her body language seems receptive, she really opened up during conversation. IMO, I feel like my SMV is higher than hers, I have a car and she doesn't, I own a house and she leases an apt. Im feeling confident. We both know I have to leave at 7 to go to a little party for a friends wedding like 45 minutes away for the night. She asks me to take her to redbox to rent a movie and get some cigarettes. I drop her off and she asks me for a hug and I leave.

First mistake, later that night I told her I don't get to meet many girls who I can just chill with and talk to music about for 4 hours. I then ask if she wants to go to a place to play indoor glow in the dark putt putt (sounds lame but whatever), she says shes "not into putt putt sorry".

I leave her alone the rest the night until the morning. She texts me and says sorry and that she fell asleep early that night. I tell her it's cool. I playfully send her a song link because that's what we had been doing the past 3 days, sharing music. We have plans for later this night and she asks what time I'm off of work and I tell her.

After I'm about ready to hang out with her I text her and she says sorry she feels like shit and doesn't want to hang out. I just say "ah ok, nevermind then." She then sends two texts quickly asking why and if I had anything planned. I don't respond and within 2 minutes she calls me so I answer and just tell her it's cool and I understand, we chat shortly then I tell her I have to go to watch a movie which plays from my phone.

Second mistake, An hour later I text her and tell her that I just thought she was a really cool girl and I like her a lot and I don't want to come on too strongly, but I don't want to act too distant either. -I felt this way because there was a big change in ratio of texting and communication before and after we hung out. After we hung out she didn't respond to me like she used to.

The next day, I text her good morning because she said she's the romantic type, she responds the same and apologizes again for falling asleep early and she has a terrible headache this morning. I just say "It's okay".

4 hours later I send her a pic of me looking fresh ready for the wedding later and I say, "Whatcha think" and she just says, "I think that jacket looks a little too big on ya ha". I say "fml lol".

I thought that was a pretty shitty response and I haven't talked to her in about a day. I'm not getting oneitis I would just like to not fuck up what was going good until recently.

TL/DR Using red pill principles that seem natural to me things we going great. I feel like I started to fuck up and view her as a unicorn type situation and after talking for like 4 days straight, I haven't talked to her in about 1 day.

Not too concerned obviously theres plenty more of them out there I just didn't want to fuck up what was going well. What should I do next?