So guys I am late 20's finished grad school but don't have a job and deadbroke. The reason I deduced is simple, its because I finally accepted that I have been living with depression all this while. Basically I have internalized crap from a very young age and my default position is always that I am not good enough, they will never choose me etc. Applying for stuff even feels like a waste of time. I have been trying to chip away at these erroneous thoughts but if you know anything about depression you know that it completely isolates you. I am too ashamed of my situation to even try to talk to anyone who might care.The cold truth is that probably nobody cares. And these days are just hard and painful. If you don't think you are good enough, unfortunately the whole world will agree with you.

Now I love the TRP community. But this stuff doesn't work when you are in this position I.e no job, no money etc. I myself I am pretty good looking I would say (at least a number of women have told me). But that internal struggle and emptiness means that I can't reveal the real me to women/ppl or that I even know the real me. Always putting on acts. Most of it immature which just turns them off.

Anyways I wanna know from those of you who are older , have any of you come back from a situation like this? To get a job and pull together everything ? How did u do it? I wanna read some comeback stories.