What Men Need from Women in Relationships

twinkletoestherman · 2021-05-25T05:19:48+00:00

Meh, feels like a they should do for us. Bit like how woman describe their prince on a white horse.

I'd summarize it to this:

Communicate and accept all weirdness involved. We're all just trying to make sense of everything.

That goes for any couple. Whether it be a man and a woman or something else.

thee_protagonist666 · 2021-05-25T06:04:02+00:00

One of my past relationships went down in flames because whenever I asked her what she wanted to do she always just gave an answer to something she thought I liked or wanted to do. After some months of this she left me for another dude after cheating on me and her reason was that we never did anything she wanted to do. I mean when I ask you what you want to do for a date night or whatever just say what you actually want and not just lie then blame me for it later. I aint no mind reader.

2021-05-25T05:36:07+00:00

If only my ex-wife would have been less selfish, egocentric and toxic......And would have read this list....

Now she is living her best life with all these gentlemen ghosting her after some weeks and breaking her heart

twinkletoestherman · 2021-05-25T10:04:49+00:00

To accept the nice things I do for them without a critical eye. I'm a self-sacrificer that wants self sacrifice. I'm more than willing to drop everything and be there if it's also the other way around. I want to listen and understand as long as it's also the other way around. There are some things you don't want to do? That's okay, there's some things I don't want to do, either. Etc. It doesn't have to be perfectly balanced, but I have been in too many relationships where I'm pulling all the weight and being criticized when it doesn't work.

twinkletoestherman · 2021-05-25T11:22:32+00:00

Outstanding! thank you for sharing your experience! If you haven't already, share it with other women too! The balance of a healthy relationship is worth the effort.

The biggest thing? Someone to have my back. If you are there, I am ok. You got me.

You said it a few ways in your message.

Thanks for engaging

violetskies7 · 2021-05-25T06:01:40+00:00

I’ll tell you what we as men need and I’ll probably get shit for it but here it is. 1. Sex 2. Sandwiches(Food) 3. Peace.

evenmoremeancomments · 2021-05-25T06:56:13+00:00

I don't "need" things from anyone else, especially my SO. I'm independent and I tend to do things on my own, they don't need to do anything for me. If I had to make a list, it would look like:

Respect my independence and I'll respect yours (and you)
Leave me alone when I need to be left alone
Sex, maybe and possibly, I wouldn't care either way

obligatoryclevername · 2021-05-25T15:49:22+00:00

It's pretty basic. Men aren't hard to please. Be kind. That's it. Just be nice. It's so simple.

Title	What Men Need from Women in Relationships
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Date	May 25, 2021 5:15 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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