Mistake vs Behavior

stayPositive890 · 2021-04-11T23:53:28+00:00

I don't think there's a hard and fast rule for this. It's subjective. There are certain things that a man may do that would mean you should walk away the first time he does it. For example, if a man should threaten your life, giving him a second chance may be a death wish. But if it's a silly habit, even if they do it multiple times, you want to overlook it and compensate for it.

In general, look at his actions and not his words. If he says sorry but does it again, it means that he's not truly sorry. Then again, it depends on what that thing is.

Also, since you tend to fall for assholes, you may want to look at yourself. Self reflect.

victorianasshole · 2021-04-12T05:35:43+00:00

That's problem with women today, they search for Superman, ignore Clark Kent and meanwhile make do with jerks.

Good advertisement doesn't mean good product. Try looking closer and you might find better person. Keep falling for "good advertising" and you might end up being karen.

DasXbird · 2021-04-12T11:43:47+00:00

How is your relationship with yourself? In my experience we tend to choose poor friends and partners if we don't really care much for ourselves on a deeper level.

Meditation and hypnosis are good tools to uncover, change and look into the subconscious driving factor of your own behaviour.

Fried_Onions84 · 2021-04-19T13:13:35+00:00

If you want to stop falling for assholes then find ways to raise your self esteem and self confidence. The whole "you must love yourself before you can love someone else" adage is sooo true! What you put up with in your life you invite more of. People who have low self esteem tend to fear leaving people who no longer benefit their life or disrespect them. When you act like you are inferior or allow people to treat you like shit they will pick up on that and eventually treat you accordingly.

Title	Mistake vs Behavior
Author	harasquietfish6
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	April 11, 2021 10:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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