Every time we hear the word “oneitis”, the cure is to fuck more bitches, spin more plates, approach more girls. Abundance will stop you from catching feels for a unicorn and turning her into oneitis.

What if you already see many girls? If you’ve got 3+ plates spinning and you’ve slept with many women before, but there’s one girl you’re seeing who’s just better?

She has a personality you like, she’s better in bed, you have fun with her, she has something all the other girls don’t.

You could be fucking 10 bitches a week and no matter how high your abundance, this girl is going to infect you with oneitis. It may creep in slowly but it’s going to happen, unless you ghost her real quick. You may see all your other girls but you lose interest, she’s the one you’d rather spend time with.

So is abundance really the cure for oneitis that people seem to think it is? Or is abundance a mental strength, not a physical action?

“This girl meets all my criteria and even though I’ve not yet been with a girl like her, I know there are more out there who are better”. This perhaps is true abundance?

Vs,

“I clearly have oneitis for her but I’ll aimlessly fuck other girls in the hope it cures me, even though I still feel empty inside and feel nothing for them”

Oneitis seems to be a symptom the man will become affected with regardless of abundance in physical women, so, it’s mental abundance you need and not physical? Thoughts?

How do the men of TRP handle themselves when they get a plate who is better than all the rest?