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Busting the Myth of Male Sexuality—the Need to Be Desired

Banake

March 7, 2021
47 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/experimentations/202103/busting-the-myth-male-sexuality-the-need-be-desired
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Title Busting the Myth of Male Sexuality—the Need to Be Desired
Author

Banake

Upvotes 47
Comments 3
Date March 7, 2021 6:12 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/lzw5p7/busting_the_myth_of_male_sexualitythe_need_to_be/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/busting-the-myth-of-male-sexualitythe-need-to-be.1191202
https://theredarchive.com/post/1191202
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Comments

[–]dontpet 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I like that they did this article. The information further along was very interesting. I suspect overall men are very much blamed for desire slipping out of the relationship, with women not taking a good share of the responsibility.

I often cringe when they discuss theoretical models in regards to gender and sexuality. Very few of those have a neutral or even better a positive regard for men.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"A Lack of Research on Men’s Need to Be Desired Sexually"

Er ... actually, what I have observed is a lack of research on any need men may have.

Like some respect, you know, as a human being. Like basic human dignity. Like being treated with a minimum of decency. Or, just plain physical survival. Say, to the same life expectancy as the rest of society.

Due to a lack of research, apparently, none of these have ever occurred to anybody, either. Should I contact "psychologytoday.com"?

Or whatever. Yeah, go ahead. Desire me. Not that I will give a damn.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Clearer communication would lead to more and better sex, reducing the chance of conflict or other negative outcomes due to miscommunication." The irony here is that Women have been saying this, or something to that effect, for bloody ages but when it comes time to do the comminicating? Nada. Nothing. If you don't already know, I won't tell you.

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