So I am just looking for some thoughts on this. I want to file a law suit against my ex for false accusations as she continues to float them out there in all different types of hearings in attempts to sway judges.

I have a hearing tomorrow with a complex master that handles financial decisions only! This case has been going on since Thanksgiving because of all the petions she has filled. We are here because we have gone through 7 modifications hearings that she brought on to me and over the summer her lawyer admitted to additional income that we where never made aware of in excess of 5k per month. The judge ordered a full release of everything, bank, credit cards, everything from both of us. I was in full agreement but they petioned and said they believed by releasing this information her and our children would be in fear and put in jeopardy because I would know the whereabouts of her daily routines. They said I also stalk her and harass her. All not true with no evidence. They reference a specific event when I found out when I caught my wife having an affair as I was tracking my car 3 years ago. Legally this car was soley in my name, leased by me and insured by me so I had every legal right to do this. She is playing this up as stalking, but not explaining why this event happened like I just woke up one day and did this, as nothing like this happened before or after what she did. This was all attempt to sway the judge by making me look like I'm insane, once again because this was used in custody years ago along with he is mentally unstable, drug abuse, abuses his kids and her, which landed me on supervised visitation for 18 months until I got a hearing set and had all the real information that would have proved all her lies, they petitioned the court to refuse the release and immediately offered to remove me from supervision which I was. I have my children every other weekend, no pfa, no police record, never have any issue with my children. Also during this I had another child before our marriage that I had custody of and was raising.

Since she continues to make these claims I decided 18 months ago to have pick up and drop off at the state police department which is half way between us because I wanted everything recorded. She later refused to meet there any longer because she said it was too far. I warned her that I would not attend pick up and drop off because she continues to make claims about me and I did not feel safe being around her. So for the last 14 months I have not attended pick up or drop off as my father does it to avoid any conflict. However she has made claims he threatened her also, so he records all of this without her knowledge including the time she made this other claim.

So I suggested we return to the police station as this is ridiculous. In a message in writting to me she said she does not fear me in terms of abuse so the change of location would not be needed. Then she writes I am only scared that you stalk me and harassment. None of this is happening. Then demands I return to pick up and drop off. She has also made claims against other men in her life and called people child abusers and rapists, her words are ridiculous.

Bottom line I want to sue for defamation so this can stop. This way every time I have a hearing it stops coming up. I have even offered up my phone records to show my location over the last two years.

What should I do?