I have been on supervised visits with my children for over 14 months. There was multiple claims that I disproved but in the end the report came back not in my favor. This report has been used as a golden ticket during divorce proceedings and custody decisions. I was having my children every weekend before this and then after was put on a schedule from 11 to 7 on Saturday's only supervised by my parents. This quickly changed as she allowed them to stay overnight and always said it was a favor and I should thank her for allowing this time. I do not thank someone that allows me to see my children as it is my right. I can not thank someone that has lied to limit my time and knows there is no concern. I think it also is important to state I pay my alimony and cs support which is also increased an additional 20% on top of the state maximum do to my limited time ordered from that report and the judge.

Last week I recently found out that the psychological evaluator was sued by the state psychological board for multiple violations and was convicted for these wrong doings a few months ago. For almost a year I have fought against his findings, he even was having conversations with my ex months after the evaluation which she accidentally wrote in an email to me. His behavior was so unprofessional. This has given her full reign to treat me and say things that anyone would believe as she would hide behind this document.

I am filling for a custody hearing based on this and getting another evaluation. The fact I lived like this and my children lived like this was ridiculous, my rights where stolen. Her and her lawyer would use this report to trash me at every turn and use it to always say I was a liar and discredit any of my concerns about phone calls, medical treatment, my time...anything.

In the meantime I have hired a supervisor service to now report on when they are with me as my parents which can be viewed as bias which are my supervisors to bring these records to court. Meanwhile I have sole custody of another child but some how that was not looked at nor cared about.

Currently because of the virus I can only have visits with the supervision agency that is court appointed and certified at a local park. The kids are to be dropped at a certain time and she is to leave then return at a certain time. Neither of us are to see each other or have any contact. Last week she refused to leave the area then returned much earlier to watch us also. A complete violation of what was agreed to. This was noted by the agency. She complained that agency was not properly social distancing as she was "told" by my son I kissed him on his head. We actually all have to wear masks during our visits as this was just another lie.

Now the phone calls!!!! So our calls are scheduled and to be in private and she is to have no interaction. Now she has found her work around. She claims that all calls are in private and the kids are ready for bed in pajamas waiting for me to make the call at the home. I actually have to text before our time to notify her that I will be calling during a certain time we already agreed to. Then I am asked to call her cell as she is not home and the call takes place while she is in the car with the children. Making every call not private once again.

The mental abuse is just so overwhelming, takes everything not to just call her out. I have taken so many steps to keep involved with my children and it is pathetic the system allows this to happen.