Really this post is ABOUT a short segment starting https://youtu.be/En5ogipfMcY?t=1599 @26:40 and running about 40 seconds

As seen on youtube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=En5ogipfMcY in this week's episode '20something' McCurdy interviews the writer of a self help book for women in their 20s.

So, to me this is a 'Girl World' type podcast, in their presentations and their discussions they make very clear that this is FOR women and girls - but they do not go so far as to say 'no boys allowed'.

McCurdy really seems to think very highly of the book '20something' that is this weeks topic and of the author 'life coach Christine Hassler' having apparently read and been effected by the book when she was just in its target demo, a woman in her 20s.

In this portion of the interview Hassler talks about the importance of setting boundaries as part of becoming or being 'a grown ass woman'.

So it just struck me when she mentions examples of healthy boundaries that healthy women might set in their personal relationships she goes for 'tell you mom to please not talk about her relationship with you father, you dont want to talk about that, and tell your friend to

please don't talk about 'how much men suck' because i don't believe that, you know and that's not the conversation I wanna be in.