Hi all,

Older man here (late forties), discovered the PUA scene in the early 2000's, had a lot of fun, and I have been moderately successful ever since. The evolution into the RedPill community has been an interesting one to see.

I have bumped into this particular situation with this woman, and I wanted to ask the regulars about their opinion. By the way; she is Eastern European and in her early forties.

Long story short; we matched on Tinder, we met, she brought a (female) friend, I bounced after about 5 minute, but not before I laid the Kino on her and we did some serious kissing before I abruptly stopped, looked her in her eyes, told her to go back to her friend and walked away. Pretty standard so far.

Of course my phone blows up after that, I act aloof, but she is giving me a hard time, and won't come out to meet. She is talking the talk that she is totally into me, but her actions speak different. She keeps throwing shit-tests my way, and I pass most of them. She is at times very moody and/or emotional, I attribute it to non-consumed horniness (I like to talk in a very descriptive as it is catnip to most women) and her low self esteem. Oh yes she definitely has low self-esteem. So validation is what she thrives on.

The contact kind of fizzles out, as I just can't be bothered to work very hard on maintaining attraction, especially without the possibility to escalate to more serious stuff. I have to at least be able to isolate her for that, right?

Now, after about a month of no contact, my phone pings. It's her.

I play it cool and wait an entire day to answer, and then I still only answer after some serious time has passed when she subsequently messages me. I reward her attention after a while by making some C&F jokes and teasing her.

Then she goes: "I want to see you! Pick me up next week and we will get to know each other better!"

Now, with the episode of meeting her the first time (remember she brought a girlfriend), and the obvious frame she wants to pull me into, her believing in her magic pussy is obvious.

I respond by saying : "I have a better idea. You come and pick me up, I'll take you to X, and we will have some fun"

Her response: "I don't have a car blabla. Look, next week is fine, come and pick me up. I will be not getting on my knees for you. Take it or leave it!"

So this is the battle of the frames. Interesting to see that her frame is that whoever comes to the other person is getting on their knees for the other. This does not bode well.

What do the regs think here? I have not replied to her yet. Is this a hard next by just ignoring her?

Appreciate the feedback.