A girl I had recently plated texted me on the hour yesterday that she was going to be late due to various dire, world threatening reasons. I begrudgingly accepted, gave her the benefit of the doubt, only to receive another cancellation text and reschedule to today.
We were supposed to meet at 6, and she texted me at 5:45 that she's on her way home and would be ready for 6:30.Didn't end up picking her up till 7:30 as there were some last minute details we needed to iron out with her taking her sweet fuckin' time.So,Here we go again..I live out of town for work, she lives at home because she's in school still, so we have a few pints and head to her friends house as we have on occasion if I don't feel like getting a room.
It's probably due to the age difference and "inexperience"( which I know she has plenty of), but fooling around with her was like fooling around with a manakin.She was terrible at foreplay and I had to lead the whole way. Which is great,but only when theres some enthusiasm on her part. Just do something to show me you want the D. Don't wait until I'm balls deep. Huge turn off, but everything else was decent or improving.
Anyways, tonight we smoke a bowl, put on a show and she starts yawning. I'm thinking it's now or never, so I escalate and carry her upstairs. In the time it took me to set an alarm, she had passed out. I sat there for a couple hours, in and out of sleep due to being so annoyed with the situation and the feeling that this girl is going to be a huge waste of time, and whether or not I leave and force her to figure out her ride situation.Eventually her friend comes home and she pops out of bed to go talk,while I'm still sitting there.
So I got up and left.Two strikes, back to back, isn't cool. Once she realized,her and her girl started blowing up my phone with texts and snaps bewildered about why I peaced. I'm past the point of no return now, but I don't give a fuck and I'll never know what those messages say. Either she wasn't into me or she's just an idiot.
How do I frame the fact that tardiness like this is not acceptable. That if I say 7, it's 7 unless it's an emergency? I tried to make light of her shitty time management, that she owes me a drink now, etc. ,but obviously it didn't work. Is this just a silent killer your guys look for when screening girls?
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