The Moment You Think “He’s Different” About A Guy, He’s Scammed You

MarcyDozer · 2019-09-03T21:31:57+00:00

I’m not sure who needs to hear this but I disagree with this truthbomb. I think doing comparisons at all can leave us in awkward situations. And it can’t be healthy for a heart or head to assume men are scamming. You’ll close off and act all wonky with a good one.

Focus on what you want and how you want to be treated and if he does those things, you can keep moving forward. One day you’ll need to open up and be vulnerable and trust.

Does he treat you kindly? Does he introduce you to friends and family? Does he respond when you tell him what you like/don’t like? Does he respect your time for children/job/other commitments? Does he make you laugh? Is he curious about you? Does he seem to enjoy being with you?

If he doesn’t, move on and move on quickly.

Avieasolia · 2019-09-03T21:46:06+00:00

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Title	The Moment You Think “He’s Different” About A Guy, He’s Scammed You
Author	throwawayy92838383
Upvotes	7
Comments	16
Date	September 2, 2019 4:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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