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LEVEL UPthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:32 AM
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LEVEL UPthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:21 PM
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throwawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 12:54 AM
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LEVEL UPthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 07:22 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 08:53 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 01:24 AM
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STRATEGYthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 08:51 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 05:18 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 09:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 06:03 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 09:34 PM
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TRUTHBOMBthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/19 04:52 AM
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LIES MEN TELLthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 12:28 AM
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RANTthrowawayy92838383/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 12:17 AM
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Where did I ask for a link to be posted? Where did I post a link? Where did I indicate her username? I understand Reddit’s rules. I am a mod of this sub. Finding her post on your own and giving her support isn’t “brigading the sub”. No one is going to know you came from FDS by commenting, “You did the right thing girl” or sending her a DM. Are they going to be psychic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:29 AM
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Nah, I’m good. I didn’t tell anyone link her post or post her username. Finding her (via the search option) and saying nah girl, you’re not crazy, stick to your guns when 90% of the comments are going to be telling her to communicate and that she was being a bitch isn’t brigading. Don’t twist my words, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:03 PM
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Y’all. Please reassure her that she did the right thing. Reddit is used to women having no self-respect and overvaluing useless males, so they’re going to dog-pile on her and try to convince her to cOMmUnICaTe 🤢 Also, if a man does not defend you in a social situation where you’re being attacked, or worse, piles on and disrespects you (even “jokingly” teehee) when he is with his friends, that is a top-tier red flag. You don’t even have to argue or say anything. Excuse yourself to the restroom, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:43 PM
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100% this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:51 PM
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100% no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:26 AM
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I read this entire thread because it was reported. I’m not sure if it was you that did? If so, I want to point out that we endorse the advice of waiting two moths before sex. Outcomes won’t be perfect, such as in your situation, but best possible outcomes broadly can only be achieved by waiting a significant amount of time or gaining commitment before intercourse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:23 AM
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We need to get on this woman’s LEVEL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:36 AM
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This is actually really good advice. A lot of women don’t want to hear it, but it’s true. Men only think of you as a fuck-toy until you’ve mentally fucked them (i.e. they’ve become emotionally attached to you). It’s also wise to use femininity to your advantage. Straight men have no natural defense to femininity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:50 AM
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Fucking eyeroll 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:38 PM
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👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:34 PM
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What trash. Why do women put up with this bullshit? If a man had asked me to anal and got pissy about it when I said hell no, I would have laughed in his stupid face and then told him to fuck off 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:51 AM
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“Low vale”? This is such a stupid fucking response. Have you ever had a fully grown man, who is taller, bigger, and stronger than you, inches from your face threatening you and screaming? You’re going to call her actions domestic violence and “low value”? That’s such a fucking joke. He was trying to terrify her and he succeeded. It’s called a flight or fight response. It doesn’t make her “low value” for reflexively trying to defend herself from perceived danger. Which, if you have never had the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:07 PM
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Romantic love is a fantasy bought and sold to women by the media. (Romance novels, chick flicks, etc.) Realize it does not exist and that there are more fulfilling aspects to life than literal brain chemistry that exists to make you mate and propagate our species. Why women peruse and value “romance” to the extent that they do is confusing. Why enter a relationship with the goal of “love”? How does love benefit you, as a woman, exactly? How does romance benefit you? Noting, again, that the roman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:36 AM
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That guy at the end that was like, “Do you know her? Then don’t fucking touch her.” Thank god for bits of sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:14 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:23 AM
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Despite what anyone thinks of his politics, Obama as a MAN is a great example of how a HVM treats his woman. He is great husband and a great father. His interactions with Michelle are goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:50 PM
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Definitely. Only impart that kind of love to family and friends who reciprocate it fully. It should never be one-sided or given to friends or family who are toxic, narcs, users, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:28 PM
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In addition to WMLB, Fuck Him: Why Nice Girls Finish Single, The Rules, Power of the Pussy, Art of Seduction, and SheRaSeven’s YouTube videos were all great sources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:52 PM
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Well said Jammies 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:35 AM
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Tbh my pet peeve is comments like this where people talk about celebrities like they know the truth about their family life. You don’t know her or her family. You don’t know what really went down. You get sound bits, clips, and statements from her and and her family—that’s it. You don’t know what’s true or not. You weren’t there and don’t know what exactly went down between her and her father. Which, in order cut off a parent like that, must have been pretty bad. Also, someone paying for somethi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:24 AM
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The equation is simple: Be happily single, don’t chase men, don’t get emotionally attached (ever) or put them on a pedestal, live your life fully, and don’t give a fuck. Men climb the walls for women with this attitude about life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:35 AM
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Romantic male partners aren’t meant to be your best friend IMO. I’m not interested in my male partner knowing everything about me and finishing my sentences (lmao). That’s reserved for family and friends. Keeping men emotionally at arms length at all times is the only way women can retain power in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:24 AM
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Pick Me shit will only backfire on you in the end. If a man ever brings up strip clubs, shut that shit down firmly and immediately. Don’t leave any doubt in his mind that you find them unacceptable. Don’t try to be “down” and “cool” or waffle about your opinion of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:51 PM
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Don’t worry girl, it takes training and time to keep yourself from getting attached. I recommend watching the video “Emotional Women Can’t Win This Game” by SheRaSeven on YouTube. It’s great motivation, inspiration, and she gives tips on removing yourself emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:42 AM
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You should be happy. You’re only sad because you became emotionally attached to him. I don’t think it’s said enough in this sub, but you should refrain from getting emotionally invested or attached to the man you’re seeing. There’s no reason why any woman should fall in love with someone she’s been seeing less than six months, or even year. Love needs be grown and earned throughout the years. Not fallen into in a couple weeks or months. Ladies you need to protect your heart and not get emotional…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:11 PM
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Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:42 PM
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No wonder we’ve raised a generation of PickMes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:37 PM
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Men are ultimately men and can only be so good. At their core, each one is the same with similar motivations. Some have better qualities than others (the said HVM), but it would be a mistake to crystallize any man in your mind because AMALT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:34 PM
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Honestly, you’re better off going out in the world and finding a HVM. Not only because more of them exist outside of dating apps, but when a man swipes you on Tinder he automatically places you the “woman I can potential fuck“ category. If you meet a man organically at a function, dance class, or whatever, you can build up an acquaintance or friendship which will allow him to humanize/respect you before he asks you out, even if he wants to have sex with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:29 PM
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You should have just told him to fuck off after he insinuated you’d come to his house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:16 PM
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👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:24 PM
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The formula is so fucking simple. Be helpful with chores around the house, use foreplay and actually make her come, make her feel desirable, and prioritize her in your life. Impress her. Court her. Stop being fucking lazy. Men are coming up with all kinds of crazy coercive shit to make their wives and girlfriends sleep with them when in reality not that hard. They’re just entitled and unwilling to put in extra work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:49 PM
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Casual sex aside, another thing all women should avoid is falling in love and getting emotionally attached to a man. Dating and being someone’s girlfriend isn’t the time to get lost in your emotions. There’s no reason to get emotionally attached to man you’ve known for several months, or less. You need to think about the long term goals, i.e. how you want this man to treat you and how you want him to provide for you. Emotions will cloud your judgment. You get mushy, emotional, and fall in love? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:52 PM
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It’s one and done ladies. If he fucks up and you forgive him and take him back, you’ve just showed you’re weak willed and he can fuck up again and be forgiven again. One chance is all they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:24 PM
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Oh my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:11 PM
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It’s so important to fuck him mentally before you actually fuck him. Mental fucking is what makes men attached to you. You can’t appropriately mentally fuck him if you have sex too soon. You’re trying to humanize yourself and detach yourself from what a man sees you as initially (pussy, sex object). Once you’ve mentally fucked him and he sees you as a human (two months or longer) and he CARES about you, is committed, or invested enough in you, then you can start considering actual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:22 AM
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LMAO! So true it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:17 PM
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The real question is why are you even talking to and bantering with him. This would be an immediate block from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:13 PM
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It’s so hard finding a man who’s 30+ without a flat tire forming around his mid section with a bloated face. Every man I’ve dated who’s been thirty or above has been skinny fat or worse. Except one, but he was a doctor, and actually cared about his health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:08 PM
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Dayum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:00 PM
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This is perfect eye bleach after reading pick-me comments 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:32 AM
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Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:30 AM
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That’s awful. I’m so sorry you were treated like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:18 AM
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Independence - emotional, mental, financial, social, etc. is crucial. You should never depend on a man for anything. Not one fucking thing. If you’re unfulfilled in some category of life, clean that shit up and get it sorted because you will fall straight on your face when he pulls the rug out from under your feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:07 AM
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All men trash. Older men are just uglier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:01 AM
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Dating as a woman should be easy. Your job is to embrace your passive energy while he does the planning and organizing. Making suggestions or requests is fine, because he should want to please you. BUT he should always be doing the footwork because his JOB is to impress you. DO NOT PLAN DATES. If you’re the one organizing dates and hitting him up for your next meet, drop him and start over because a) You’ve already set the precedent/tone for your relationship by demonstrating you’ll do the work,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:58 AM
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This is exactly why women need to always have their own sources of income. Sole reliance on a man for money will leave women trapped if things ever go wrong. And believe me ladies, they will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 06:25 PM
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The moment you think “he’s different” about a guy, he’s already scammed you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:34 AM
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Sounds insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:51 PM
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They aren’t shit tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:50 PM
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If you’re a woman and think it’s hot or empowering to have a man smack the shit out of you during sex, go ahead and check yourself into therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:45 PM
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He sounds lazy and needy. Complaining about doing all the work (which, as a man, he should in the beginning) and getting upset because you didn't reciprocate a text signify that. You're not obligated to respond to each and every text. If a man asked me to apologize to him because I didn't respond to a text I'd laugh in his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:04 AM
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How long have you two been seeing each other? I find this guy a little whiny from your description. If he was getting whiny and jaded within the first couple weeks because he felt he was doing most of the work, I don't think that's a good sign. Not responding to one text shouldn't send him over the edge to expect an apology. Personally, I'm not a big texter either. I have busy life and can't be bothered to text day and night, for hours, with long drawn out paragraphs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:44 AM
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Block, delete, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:07 AM
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His wife is about to undergo the most physically, mentally, and emotionally stressful phenomenon a human body can go through, and he is concerned about what again? Oh, of course, his penis. Me are the fucking worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:01 AM
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The sad part is that most women would find this acceptable. They’ve really brainwashed women to think getting choked, slapped, and other shit by a man during sex is cool and good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:55 AM
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Lmao this reads like some sort of fantasy post by some porn-sick serial misogynist incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:48 AM
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Most women are conditioned to be martyrs from a young age. Plus, this man sounds like hot, fiery garbage and I’m willing to bet he was an emotional abuser. The lack of sympathy for this women, and other women who fell into the trap our culture purposefully puts in front of females (marry, have children, give up everything for them) is disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 03:43 AM
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Yep, and ladies, make his ass wait at the very LEAST two months. If any any point before that time (or whatever higher timeline you’ve chosen) he stops being a gentleman who is attentive, respects you, treats you well, contacts you, and tries to impress you, then drop him because his low-value colors are emerging. You’re setting the tone for the rest of your relationship with a man PRE-sex. If he is a lazy, negging, boundary-pushing scrub, it will not improve after sex. You’re negotiating the te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 02:27 AM
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Sidebar has book recs available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 08:42 PM
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You hit the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 08:41 PM
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The grandpa part made me choke on my vitamins 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 06:44 PM
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Marriage is a trap. Children are a trap. Living happily and independently with a male accessory (if need be) is likely the happiest road a woman can tread upon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 03:00 AM
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That made me ugly laugh. Men are so primitive I can’t even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:43 PM
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Amen 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:36 AM
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This is good advice! Sometimes tough love is needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:36 PM
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Every older man I entertained when I was really young was, in reflection when I got a little older, a complete fucking loser and man-child. A woman their age would have never put up with their immature shit. They could only get away with being so incredibly pathetic because as younger women, we are all more naive to what’s acceptable behavior for a man that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 03:34 AM
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You can Google their tactics with the keywords above or just search for RP tactics. It’s a good idea to familiarize yourself a bit with their bullshit. FDS when followed effectively should weed out these types of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:46 PM
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Read this post from the sidebar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:37 PM
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Latin dance, yoga class, volunteering, hiking groups, trivia nights, etc. Basically, find a hobby outside of work or education and go regularly. Join MeetUp and see what events are happening in your area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:43 PM
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Lmaoooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 06:31 PM
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This is why I don’t believe men should even be the centerfold of a woman’s life. Romance, love, and the mushy propaganda women have been fed isn’t real. Relationships are not beneficial to women. Women take on the majority of the domestic and emotional labor. Studies have proven women are more mentally, emotionally, and physically unhealthy after marriage or a LTR with a man. Being single, having a fulfilling social life, solid career, steady group of friends, fulfilling hobbies and interests, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 08:22 PM
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Your response was perfect sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 06:50 PM
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Yes, drag them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:09 PM
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Amal is literally a goddess. She always looks effortless and glows. Grandpa on the other hand...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:39 PM
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Don’t ever take anything they say to you when you begin dating at face value. They are trying to butter you up for sex. That’s it. Men know women like to hear certain things, but it literally means nothing to them. Don’t fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:15 PM
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I’ve always loved Keanu Reeves. I’m glad he found someone that makes him happy. I’m also glad he’s not a run-of-the-mill middle aged Hollywood creep that dates girls young enough to be his daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:12 PM
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This ☝️ Tbh after you truly understand the nature of men, it’s really easy to stop romanticizing and falling for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 04:06 AM
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How new is your relationship? Those things are best handled at the beginning. Anything you don’t tolerate or won’t tolerate should be mentioned before an actual relationship ensues. Something simple like, “I don’t date men who watch pornography,” suffices. You’re not attacking or blaming him. You’re staying a fact, and if he wants further clarification you can explain, then say, “It’s a deal breaker for me”. He’ll either respect that, adapt, and continue on with you, or he won’t value you enough…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:49 AM
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To me, texting is for setting up dates. He can check up on me to tell me to have a good day, or whatever, during the day, but I’m not opt to have long-winded conversations over text. If you’re talking that much I imagine you’re destroying a lot of the mystery surrounding yourself. Women want romance and men want intrigue. Make sure this doesn’t translate into seeing him frequently for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 03:15 AM
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Feelings change and people change. Presuming that that this story is even true, she was with this boy since she was a child. She’s a grown woman now. They can easily still be good friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:25 AM
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That’s your problem right there. Men don’t value nice women. I’d advise you to begin your journey by purchasing “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argrov and “The Rules” by Ellen Fien. You can purchase them used on Amazon for cheap. Read them ASAP before you engage with any other men. Especially those that you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:18 AM
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Never? Giirrrll. Time to start reading the side bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:08 AM
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Read the section about “Mama’s Boys” in Kara King’s “Power of the Pussy”. She makes a lot good points too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:30 PM
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Tbh I can’t wait until they roll out the male androids equipped with the ability to be empathetic with women, share housework in a egalitarian way, be romantic, and see us something other than sex objects. It’s going to be over for men when they roll those babies out. Also, isn’t it funny how men and women’s interests in these things differ? Men just want something they can fuck and subjugate to their control and sexual whims. Women want emotional intimacy, romance, and a connection outside of s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:29 PM
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Basically, he grew up extremely coddled by her. She took care of everything for him. (You know, one of those mothers who basically sets up their son’s future wife to be his mommy because he was never expected to do chores or be responsible for anything.) He was pushing forty and she would fly half-way across the country just to get his affairs in order (make sure his car was okay, paperwork taken care of, clean, sort out his unopened mail). His eighty-something year-old dad would also come. Yes,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:02 PM
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☝️👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 10:48 PM
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Disrespects his mother is a HUGE one. I can’t believe how my really shitty ex would talk to his mom. It was infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 08:29 PM
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Yep, stay away from cops and military. Unless you like getting beat up. The rates of domestic violence for those two groups is incredibly high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 08:18 PM
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I can’t even count how many threads I’ve seen all over Reddit of men trying to justify sleeping with pre-teens and undergrad girls. They’re all sick in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 02:38 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 02:35 AM
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You’re clearly missing the point that a finically independent woman will not ever be under a man’s control. As long as she has her own salary, several thousand dollar’s worth of income difference doesn’t make her a dependent. She can choose to pack up and leave whenever it suits her to because she has the means to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:57 PM
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You’re assuming a woman would not make as much as as her male partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:27 PM
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We DO NOT advocate being financially dependent. We constantly press the importance of having your own career and money. Women with their own means can easily provide for themselves and cannot be manipulated by money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:23 PM
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My absolute worst ex-boyfriend was an overweight, unattractive red-head with a huge nose, beginner pot belly, and bad skin. Honestly, ugly men are a poorer option than attractive ones because they are insecure, and insecurity results in fucked up behavior like extreme jealousy, cheating, jadedness, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:46 PM
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This was beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:54 AM
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Need some of this around ovulation tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 07:50 AM
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Try asking at r/Vindicta or r/SkincareAddiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:01 PM
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I was in a situation like this with my ex. I take it you’ve already blocked him on everything? Change your number, block him on social media, go absolutely no contact, and look into legal options. Stalking and harassment are punishable (depending on your state) if you’ve kept a record of the evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 07:59 PM
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“Proactive” women are clowning themselves. If a man doesn’t approach a woman it’s because lighting didn’t strike when he saw her. However, there is a girl out there who he would approach. They’re majorly devaluing themselves by serving themselves on a plate for men. As for how you compete—Where are you hanging out to meet men? I never approach men first, but have had no issues getting them. Bars and parties are bad places to meet (good) men IMO. I would suggest an activity-based weekly gathering…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:14 AM
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Fucking excellent comment 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:03 AM
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Try MeetUp and find a weekly gathering you’d be into. Latin dance, trivia, outdoor yoga, a hiking group. Not only do you get to see and assess these men in person, but you know they are active, social, cultural, or whatever your desired values are based upon the activity you pick. I do salsa and have met a diverse array of successful, interesting men. I enjoy meeting men organically way more than I do on OLD. Edit: I’d like to add that OLD attracts a lot lazy losers, time wasters, and men search…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:03 AM
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Sickening. Luckily these are the types of steaming piles of shit we are teaching women to weed out. An ounce of disrespect and our ladies would laugh in his face and bounce. This is why it’s so important to have self-respect, high self-worth, confidence, and absolute refusal to tolerate any male bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:44 AM
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You’re over-sympathizing with men. Ultimately, low-effort men set up low-effort dates. Setting the precedent that you expect high-effort immediately is integral to your future treatment. Don’t expect to be treated like a queen if you continue to agree to coffee dates. If you want to be wined, dined, and treated like a prize, then expect such. A time-waster or player will not invest consistently over time in nice dinner dates. They’ll take you out to coffee or drinks, because it’s easy, cheap, mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:33 PM
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Yes, we have hundreds of men brigading this sub. Just ignore and block them. Remember that dating advice from men is self-serving. Male advice only serves to benefit men. Our advice focuses on a maximizing female benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:38 PM
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You’re welcome girl! Read some of the books on the sidebar for extra help too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:24 PM
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If you saw him yesterday, or only a day ago, see him Wednesday. It's time to start putting the reigns on how you space out your dates. "Please let me know ahead of time next time you need to cancel. I have a lot going on, so it's a little inconvenient for me, thanks for understanding ;)" or some derivative of that. You want to appear firm, but still feminine when enforcing your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:21 PM
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If you don't want to go out with him tonight, just say, "I'm actually feeling a little tired tonight too. I'll catch you next time we're available." I usually view short-notice cancellations as a man disrespecting my time (and subsequently drop him), but from your description it sounds as if he's been consistent. Ultimately, it's up to you. On another note, one problem I've identified in your post is that you're seeing him too frequently. In the beginning, you should not be seeing a man subseque…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:07 PM
4

The timeline depends on his behavior. He has to demonstrate continuous value and effort over a long period of time and indicate commitment. To keep things from escalating early, put the reigns on the physical side. Keep your PDA limited to a public sphere. Do not go to his house or invite him over to yours. Keep kissing light. When it escalated to making out, always end it first and don’t allow it to go on too long. Control his wandering hands in flirty, but firm way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:11 PM
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You should never attempt to fit a “type” in order to get a man. That qualifies as trying to please or impress a male (i.e. jumping through hoops). Be whatever kind of feminine or sexy appeals to you, and thus be authentic to yourself. A man needs to approach you and accept you for who you are. We don’t change for them. Taking care of ourselves with fitness, skincare etc. is done for us, with the added benefit of male attention. Completely changing your aesthetic to fit the man, however, is a no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:57 PM
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Most men want to waste your time and use you for sex. Making your time expensive weeds out both of these archetypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:44 PM
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You know you’re the most privileged and entitled class of people ever to walk planet earth when you categorize being expected to pay for meals and exclusion from an online forum as oPpReSsiOn. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:48 AM
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Men have no problem discussing their standards for women, right down the the look and color of their vaginas. There is no reason for us as women (who put 10x the effort into our appearances compared to men) to be humble about what we are attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:02 PM
10

I love how these slugs try to cope by trying to paint us all as ugly, fat, unattractive women in their heads. Like, try again honey 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 09:57 PM
10

It’s happened to me before. It’s very common tactic that narcissists use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:00 PM
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They’re just pathetic low-value men. Only broke losers would cry that much because a women expects a man to be chivalrous and pay for her meals. Thank god we’re teaching women to avoid these entitled, low-effort males. Let them die out of the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 04:56 PM
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My general rule is to look fashionable and always wear heels. Even if the man is shorter than me while I’m in them. Heels set this vibe that you are confident and womanly/feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 05:55 PM
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Pure and absolute trash. Another reminder as to why women should remain absolutely clinical about relationships and not fall into that fairytale, male romanticizing bullshit. This is the shit they will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:25 PM
6

A-fucking-men. The only men who care about that are insecure or low-value losers. As long as both parties are clean, tested, and safe, the number of sexual partners is nobody’s business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:16 PM
3

Check out the side bar and read the recommended books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:09 PM
18

Exactly, liberal feminism only benefits men. It’s disheartening to see a bunch of young women being brought up on the notion that causal sex is not only empowering, but also thinking this narrative is cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:08 PM
5

Damn needed to hear this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:19 AM
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Welcome sis. We’ve all been there. No more taking shit from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:25 PM
6

I’m not being condensing at all. Everything I said is purely informational. If you’re taking offense to my completely objective reply, then try perhaps to understand why you’re getting defensive when my aim is to maximize your benefit. You’re free to read here, I never said you couldn’t, but don’t lead our ladies astray with poor advice that only serves to benefit men. I hope other ladies who read my response will actually take something positive away from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 10:08 PM
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You’re completely welcome to try things your way. However, men enjoy a chase and that’s a fact. Initiating everything fails for several reasons: A) If you make it easy for them, they will get bored with you. B) The easier you are to attain, the less they will value you when they actually have you. C) By initiating, you’re setting the precedent that you will do much of the work and the chasing. a guy isn’t gonna fall in love with you just because you make him wait x months for sex...then when he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 10:01 PM
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It’s not about “not being yourself”. It’s about focusing on yourself first before a man. The whole premise of Sherry’s book is to emphasize that a woman’s world should not revolve around a man. Ever. Too many women, after only a handful of dates, hand themselves over on a silver platter to a male. They go above and beyond, vying for his attention, striving to please him. And why? What kind of value could he have possibly demonstrated to you at that point? It’s only a game if you fake it. If you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:44 PM
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If you have to “play the game” or the role, then you’re doing it wrong. They’ll be able to smell it a mile away. You need to actually live the life of a high-value woman. It’s not a about acting cool. It’s about focusing on yourself first and men last. If you have to fake the fact that you won’t put men on a pedestal, and fake that you put your life first before a man, are happy single, etc. then that’s the issue. It’s never about faking, it’s about being. And I’d you aren’t there yet, then you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:34 PM
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👆This. They’re testing to see if you’ll let it slide or continue to give them attention after they’ve been clearly disrespectful. The proper response is to drop them immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 07:02 PM
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Please report any male trolls seen on the sub to help us remove them! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 06:48 PM
4

Men approaching you in person is based on attraction. That being said, I can’t speak for your looks, but if you’re not in shape, take care of your hair/skin, etc., that may be a negating factor. (Check our r/Vindicta.) It also could be that you’re not getting out enough. Establish some sort of weekly hobby where there are members of the opposite sex (yoga, latin dance, trivia night, book club, etc.). Last, there’s you as a person. Are you interesting?Educated? Do you have hobbies and interests? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:44 PM
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Better yet, don’t say anything. Don’t even strain your thumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:29 PM
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Maybe? Girl, I hoped you learned your lesson, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:29 PM
2

Dating =/= Relationship You cannot “cheat” while dating. Exclusivity has not been discussed and agreed upon at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:08 PM
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Sounds like you’ve placed tons of value on a man who’s proven nothing to you yet and have already romanticized him. There’s no reason you should be “enamored” with a male after two dates. The problem is you’re trying to fake not being interested. You need to actually focus on yourself and your life instead of fantasizing about some stranger you hardly know, and who in reality is just your average, everyday man. If you try to “play the game” they’ll be able to smell it. If, on the other hand, you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:47 PM
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Of course this dickwad brings up being a feminist because women should be able to have lots of sex too teehee. How shocking 🙄 Men only being up feminism when it benefits their dicks. Slugs. Another example why mainstream liberal feminisms is bullshit. “Yas Kween be a hoe and fuck a bunch of men to be empowered.” Nah. Don’t give these men your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 04:41 AM
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Women who defend the pornography industry are big yikes. It’s the most fucking inherently misogynistic institution in existence. It’s one of the biggest (the biggest?) promoters of sexual aggression, violence, and degradation against women. Not to mention it encourage pedophilia. Women in porn are often raped, drugged, tricked, manipulated, etc. Literally has normalized the objectification of women and sexual violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:40 PM
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You should have told him to fuck off then blocked him immediately. Fucking men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:54 AM
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Check out the side bar for more information. Also, read the books in the recommended reading section. Most of the advice given on Reddit for dating is from men or male-influenced. Never take male advice as their aim is have you benefit them, opposed to where where our strategies are made to benefit women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:05 AM
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👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 06:54 PM
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Exactly. Encouraging confidence, strength, self-worth, and boundaries + standards in women is exactly what the MGTOW/RP males fear since they prey on weak women with no boundaries and low-self worth. Those types (low-value) don’t want to invest time, energy, or resources on you. They want to be able to disrespect you and string you, assuming you’ll tolerate it. Luckily, we teach women not to put up with that bullshit. Either he treats you like the Queen you are, or he can bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 05:34 PM
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Ain’t nothing good about being the “cool, chill” girl who is sexually available and down for anything a man wants without requiring him put time, effort, and investment into the woman. The only men who like a woman presenting herself like a damn Thanksgiving turkey on plate for them are low-value, lazy, and entitled men (think RP/MGTOW types). You’re setting yourself up to be used and discarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 03:14 AM
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It doesn’t sound like you need a relationship. It sounds like you need to work on yourself, get out of the house, and build a solid set of hobbies and a friend group. Your current mindset and situation (lonely, secluded, and young) is a recipe for being treated like shit by a man who will smell your loneliness (and as it follows, desperation for companionship) from a mile away. You’re only wasting your youth by not living your life, and instead fretting over finding relationship. Why would the a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 03:08 AM
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Another example of why a man should never 100% “have” you emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 02:43 AM
6

This is actually so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 06:09 PM
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If he can’t take half a second to text you a hello, what does that say about him and what he thinks of you? You know the answer sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 06:08 PM
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If he pushes you don’t be afraid to be a little sassy and say that’s my business. Men love to try to push your envelope. They like to test you to see how much they can get away with. Don’t be afraid to be firm and set boundaries, while also maintaining a feminine aura. Also, insecure/childish men are the only types who would press that kind of question. Most mature males understand what dating means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 05:21 PM
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Sounds like a flake who doesn’t respect your time. Move on. There are other gentleman in the world who understand a woman’s time is precious. He’s not the only man who exists who knows how to open a door or pull out a chair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 05:16 PM
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You’ve romanticized this complete stranger and given him tons of value he hasn’t earned. You’re needy for him already and you don’t even know him. You’ve built him up in your mind. These are all mistakes. Approaching him will be an even bigger mistake. If a man hasn’t approached you it’s because you haven’t caught his fancy enough. Sure, he might accept a date from you, but there are other women out there he’s been inexplicably attracted to and gone after. You just weren’t one of them. You shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 05:12 PM
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Unless commitment has been explicitly discussed and agreed to, it’s given that a person will be dating multiple people. This goes for both parties. That being said, simply be more tactful and say, “I’m busy that day”. You don’t need go into detail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 04:58 PM
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It’s a cope and an attempt to instill fear to lower a woman’s self-esteem. We all know men hit the wall just as hard. Somehow they’ve fooled themselves into believing a forty-year-old male is as appealing as a hot, young, fresh college boy. Biggest lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 04:54 PM
9

Sadly, that’s completely unsurprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 11:54 PM
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Don’t ever look for approval from men. Don’t jump through hoops to earn their approval. The only thing you should be focusing on is pleasing your damn self. What’s he bringing to table? Why should you let this male into your beautiful life? What’s he going to add the equation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:25 PM
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Yes! 👏 I try to explain this to the women in my life constantly. Men are not like us. They are not the same as women. Their emotional depth and motivations are completely different. You can’t treat a man the way you would treat a woman. You must treat them according to what they are. You must manage them according to their motivations. You must understand the unseemly truth behind the way they actually view you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:23 PM
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Men are truly demons. Thank god we’re teaching women to dodge these exact kind of slugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:16 PM
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I think the first step to truly liberating yourself as a woman is realizing that marriage and children are simply your willful resignation to servitude until death. The clinical reality needs to be accepted. Marriage, children, husbands, etc. have all been romanticized. Don’t buy the Disney-bullshit propaganda. Edit: Also, I’d like to add that a LTR can result in a similar outcome. Your best bet at happiness as female is achieving solid financial independence (i.e. having a well-paying job or ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 05:29 PM
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Yeah, you don’t have to tell them anything you don’t want to. Again, it’s none of their business. You’re under no obligation to disclose anything about your romantic or sexual past that you don’t want to. The only men those ask those kinds of questions with seriousness are insecure losers or RP gremlins. If he keeps pressing about it just put your foot down and say that information is personal. Be firm, but sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 02:27 AM
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You don’t have to lie. You’re just not obligated to answer. Tell them that’s a very personal question that you don’t feel comfortable answering, smile sweetly, the take a sip do your wine. Or, tell them you’ve had a handful of serious relationships and leave it at that. You don’t need to go on and on, or get into detail. At the end of the day, it’s absolutely none of their business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 09:48 PM
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As long as you’ve been tested and are safe the amount of sexual partners you’ve had is none of their business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 09:44 PM
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Great post 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 09:41 PM
2

I observe this daily with my family. It doesn’t matter how wrong, stupid, or callous my step-dad or uncle are, they will always have each other’s backs in an argument against my mother and team up against her. Despite the fact that one is literally her flesh-and-blood brother and the other is her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:41 PM
3

That story was a roller coaster ride 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:38 PM
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I’m not being snide at all. I’m being real. You’re being defensive of him because you love him. It’s clear that he has acted overtly ridiculous and unacceptable about your tattoos in the past. You said in your post he gets “funky” anytime you bring up finishing your sleeve and that you get into arguments. Past tense was not indicated. I’m only trying to benefit you. If you want to make excuse for him then be my guest. It’s your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:35 PM
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Did you come here to defend him or actually evaluate whether him having a problem with your tattoos is an issue? You’re getting defensive and you should be getting critical of him. This is the man you’re going to marry. If he was so absolutely perfect then you wouldn’t have made this post to begin with. The bottom line is you need to nip his criticism of your body in the bud. He can accept it or shut up about it. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:22 PM
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Um, sis, why are you tolerating him cursing and calling something you adorn your body with trashy? That’s gonna be a no from me dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:14 PM
2

Men are absolute fuckheads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 07:07 PM
5

You don’t need to explain anything. Just stop talking to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 07:00 PM
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What he wants is irrelevant when it comes to your body. You definitely shouldn’t be getting in arguments about it. This is you and he can either take it or leave it. He shouldn’t get into a “funky” mood when you discuss getting more tattoos. That shit is going to need to stop before you actually get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 06:58 PM
6

Girl, this made me ugly laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 09:51 PM
1

Short answer: No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 09:58 PM
0

Message me for details about the verified-only sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:10 AM
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If you don’t respect that females should have female-only spaces, this isn’t the sub for you. Review Rules #1-3 or risk a ban. This is your warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 11:38 PM
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Lmaoo! A mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:03 PM
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Every man passively engages in the routine objectification of women and misogyny. They cannot be feminists. Allies? Yes, but not true feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:57 PM
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Liberal feminism is seriously cancer. You’re too concerned with the “equality” of the most privileged and powerful class of human beings to ever walk planet fucking earth. Men only ever push the feminist argument when they are being exuded not when it’s about women. Not when the issue actually concerns women. OP’s original post stands true. Men can be allies, but true feminists? Are they participating the objectification of women? Are the taking part in one the biggest industries that normalizes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:42 PM
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He’s been banned. Thank you for reporting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:28 PM
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OP is not advocating that you be a broke bitch and ask for free meals. All high-value women have money and a career already. The point is that a high-value man should be offering to pay for your date. If he asks you to dutch treat on the first date (or the first couple, or at all, depending on your personal standards) you should immediately cancel him. OP's method is very forward, but she makes herself clear. Your expectations and standards need to be made clear to a man from the beginning. She …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 08:29 PM
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Ah, gotcha! Well, if you agree with the principals of our sub, then be sure to check our r/pinkpillfeminism!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 08:07 PM
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Just curious sis, from your post history it looks like you’re a RP woman. What exactly has attracted to you to our pink pill sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 07:18 PM
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Sis, if you want to give up the eventual goods before being wined, dined, and treated like a Queen by a stingy man, be our guest. But don’t come here telling our ladies to set their standards low. Standard shaming is not allowed here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:35 PM
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Yes, yes, and yes. This is why women need to know their worth. These vampires prey on women who don’t value themselves and put a man’s needs first before her own. We’re having absolutely none of that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:24 PM
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Thank the lord we’re teaching women no sex until a man has demonstrated commitment, investment, or value. These are EXACTLY the type of losers we want our ladies to dodge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 06:07 PM
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Not being available all the time is good. If you’re available too often and agree to meet him every time he wants to see you he will get bored. Men will try to see you as often as the can. If they’re able to, however, they get bored. Why? You posed no mental challenge. You are too easy to get. As long as you’re legitimately busy, it’s not a game. High-value women should be filling up their schedules constantly. Girls night, hobbies, interests, or even mundane things. Their lives take precedent o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 05:59 PM
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Agreed. Marriage (and children) with a man is a conscious choice to submit yourself to lifetime of domestic servitude and emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 05:40 PM
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Anywhere there are male commenters there are incles. You can’t post on r/dating, r/bumble, etc. as a woman without getting a handful of bitter little weasels bitching at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 07:09 PM
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It’s sooo fucking annoying. Attractive people get more attention. Who woulda thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 07:07 PM
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Exactly. Don’t give it up easily. The more you allow low-value shit men to fuck you, the more entitled these idiots get about sex. Have self-respect, self-worth, boundaries, STANDARDS. It doesn’t matter if your intentions are only to have sex with him. Make him work for it first. Don’t give it up until he’s demonstrated value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:49 PM
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It does, but from this foot forward you are a high-value woman. You’re no longer romanticizing men you hardly know. Why? You know building men up to be valuable before they’ve done jack shit to prove they are invested in you makes no sense. You no longer jump through hoops for men who have demonstrated zero value. You live your life, and if you allow a man to come into your life, then he better act accordingly or else it’s onto the next. I believe in you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:21 PM
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Read Rule #2 of this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:11 PM
2

Exactly, live and learn sis! Best mentality to have about men is thank you, next! Men are just men, take them or leave them, there’s more where that came from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:03 PM
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That sub is such a dumpster fire. It should be renamed “popular widespread beliefs that most people have, but realize are too fucking ignorant or abhorrent to voice in public”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:08 PM
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Thank you! 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:43 PM
10

Please read The Rules and Why Men Love Bitches. Let that be your starting point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:31 PM
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Too much too fast. You shouldn’t make yourself too available at first. Meter your interactions, affection, and attention. Men want to go fast as they can. If you let them get all your attention and affection quickly and easily, they get bored and frustrated. You will have posed zero mental challenge to them. Second, you set your cards on the table. You asked him why his attention is declining. Despite doing something that is bad (pulling away) you gave him attention. Negative attention (nagging)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:14 PM
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I feel it indicates that you undoubtedly like him more than he likes you. Which will result in you chasing him and a potential, eventual slow fade. Men don’t fear asking for what they want. If a man really wants or likes a woman he will ask her out. When a woman approaches a man he will accept the invitation, but your attraction to him is greater. There are girls he actually wants, is captivated by, and asks out, but you weren’t one of them. I’m not trying to sound mean or anything. Female well-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:58 PM
2

r/itsafetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:40 PM
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Don’t set the precedent of offering to pay. Let the man pay the first couple dates, but act gracious and surprised. If a man isn’t willing to invest in you for the the first handful of dates and spend some money, that’s very telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:38 PM
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If he told you he would call and didn’t, it’s thank you, next! Shows he doesn’t respect you or your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:33 PM
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Personally, I’d never advocate approaching a man first or starting the chase as the woman. Keep us updated though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:18 PM
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I’m detecting many problems with this situation. Men want to go fast in the beginning. They want to hang out all night, see you the next day, and then hang out all week. It’s up to you, the woman, to put the reigns on the situation. He won’t. If you allow him to travel at the speed of light he will get bored quickly because you haven’t posed a challenge. You agreed to his whims far too easily. As a rule—First dates should end within the first four to five hours. You also need to end them first. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 06:15 PM
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Imagine basing your whole identity around being a good woman for a man in RP ideology, even down to what career you should have. L o l.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 05:46 PM
2

There you girl girl. Harness your value and self-love! Sweep that absolute cockroach out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 05:35 PM
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That sub is mad pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 04:55 PM
2

Yes girl, yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 06:27 PM
9

What the fuuuuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 06:18 PM
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From the horse’s mouth: You are literally just a fuck toy to them. Now, why are you tripping over and romanticizing men again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 05:55 PM
3

No problem girl! You just replace the "reddit" portion of the link with "removeddit" :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:48 AM
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They called you a bitch because you have standards. Let the push over women be “down” with a dude who thinks it’s classy to refer to women that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:36 AM
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He sounds like a weirdo. You’re also not setting up boundaries. You’re not obligated to return every text and call. You’re not obligated to see him whenever he asks. Seeing more than 1-2x per week is a big no. He isn’t going to slow things down. You’re the one who needs to put the reigns on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:00 AM
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http://removeddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dd420o/walked_out_of_date_early_with_girl_who_is_seeing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 01:07 AM
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Pornography has really ruined entire generations of men and normalized sexual violence and degradation of women. Just try having a sexual relationship with a male where he doesn’t attempt to play out the stupid shit he’s watched in pornography on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 12:54 AM
8

The sorry I have a boyfriend line never works anyway. “What you can’t have friends?” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 12:00 AM
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Judging by OP’s history there’s reason to believe this is an undercover incel trying to push the “women only like tall men” angle. Be wary interacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 11:58 PM
8

This, this and this ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 09:07 PM
9

Yes 👏 If a man is not putting in any effort? Thank you, next! We only want men who show us they want to work to get us and make us happy. If they value you, they will invest their time, energy, thought, and money. Don’t accept anything less. We love men who treat us well, not losers who are lazy, have you chasing them, and expect everything without giving you anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 08:01 PM
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Thank the lord we’re over here teaching women to be high-value and dodge insecure, broke, stupid fucking man-children like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:53 PM
6

Seconded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:49 PM
25

They’re so tone deaf. “She’s tired and in pain? Let me ask for a picture of her in her pajamas.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:47 PM
10

Lol. If a man isn’t willing to invest in you and spend some money for at least the first handful of dates, that says a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:40 PM
5

Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 07:04 AM
7

You have no clear understanding of what abuse and manipulation is at all. Female empowerment would be helping women seek therapy and directing them resources to help them leave the abuse/recognize pattens of manipulation. Not shaming them for how another person is manipulating them and telling them to pull themselves up by the bootstraps essentially. That’s just being a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:21 AM
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I’m one of the mods of this sub. Also, you sound incredibly fucking ignorant. Abuse and manipulation are essentially psychological mind control. Telling someone who is the midst of an abusive relationship to just “empower themselves 🤪” doesn’t fucking work. This might be the wrong sub for YOU if you think it’s okay to tell women who are being abused to “stop being a victim” and continue acting like a victim-blaming POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:40 AM
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Men don’t wear signs on their shoulders saying, “Hey, I’m an abuser!” when you first meet them. It comes out slowly over time and by then the person already has their claws in whomever their victim is. Let’s not victim blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:17 AM
7

Girl... r/skincareaddiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:15 AM
20

I wouldn’t say it’s just stupidity. Men like this are often abusive and manipulative too, so it’s understandable why they return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:09 AM
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Men literally sit there in their circle jerk forums having long drawn out disgusting conversations about how a woman’s vagina should look if he’s going to have sex with her. Don’t ever let them shame you for having standards. Those types of losers fear standards because they are bottom of the barrel males who couldn’t possibly meet any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 10:35 PM
4

I love this! *Takes notes.*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 10:05 PM
31

Men don't appreciate a good or nice woman. You need to put yourself first and be a strong, smart, succinct woman. I know this isn't an easy task. We don't get to just snap our fingers and be who we need to be. You will get there though. Work on building yourself up. What makes you feel bad about yourself? Where are these feelings coming from? Really explore them in therapy even, if needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:32 PM
3

You can buy on Amazon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:15 PM
4

Have you read the two gold standard books for this sub yet? I think reading The Rules and Why Men Love Bitches will set you nicely for a more cerebral approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:08 PM
5

The boxers and pornography are just examples. The point is they’re just men. Romanticizing who they are, what they are, what they could be thinking, etc. needs to stop early on. Try taking a more clinical approach to dating opposed to investing all your feelings in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:03 PM
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First of all, change your mindset. Don’t romanticize men. Too often women will meet a man and immediately begin building him up in her head to be something he’s not before he’s even proven his value to them. They’ll day dream about him and devote too much mental attention to him. Don’t. Remember that he is just a man. He leaves his boxers all over his apartment instead of in clothes hamper. He has a bunch of porn open on his web browser. Just your average man. Stop giving him so much credit when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 05:47 PM
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God forbid I ever regress to being that woman who lost sleep and agonized over clown ass funky men. Amend to that sis. Another thing that’s changed in my approach is that I don’t fuckin’ romanticize males anymore. It helps you relinquish getting all googley eyed over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 10:12 AM
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He threw a tantrum because you said “thanks lol”? That’s gonna be no from me dawg. He’s being straight up manipulative. I’d advise you find someone less pathetic, but since you will likely not take that advice...Tell him “I don’t appreciate how you just treated me,” and then ghost his ass for several days. The thing about men is that they like to push the envelope. He is currently testing and learning (whether or not either of you are aware of it) how much he can disrespect you and get away with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 01:28 AM
5

The update was so pathetic. “We even had a good laugh about it afterward teehee.” She clearly has a very low sense of self-worth to completely excuse this psychopath-tier piece of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 08:56 PM
10

No, I don’t think they should. Though I do acknowledge levels exist. Physical attraction is enviable and necessary to some degree. However, it’s not the basis for relationships. Physical attraction in conjunction with other factors are what relationships are based off of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:45 PM
5

I didn’t say you stated they didn’t exist. Why don’t you stop putting words in my mouth. And again, you chose to infer a meaning from my statement that once again, I did not say. Acknowledging that different levels attractiveness exist is just that—acknowledgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:24 PM
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When you’re a pathetic male and know a woman would never even look in your direction so you insult her to get the teeniest morsel of her attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:21 PM
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It’s the ultimate male cope. Women are diligent about taking care of themselves. We employ skincare, haircare, supplements, exercise, and medical spas. Most women have been doing this since their teens. Men on the other hand are raggedy and don’t do shit to take are of their appearance. The average man, by thirty, is already starting to bald. His face has sun damage and pre-mature wrinkles from never touching a skincare item and washing with Axe-2-In-1 Shampoo and Face Wash his whole life. His f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:16 PM
3

Always know your value and your worth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:06 PM
16

You didn’t answer my question. People of different levels attractiveness exist. Sorry, that’s a fact of life. Orlando Bloom and Johan Hill aren’t the same playing field for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:03 PM
2

You do not need to take and use every chapter and strategy these books provide you with and implement all of them. You pick and choose the messages that personally work for you. These books provide a fresh perspective most woman need hear even if they dislike it. The biggest takeaway is that you need to value yourself first and men will follow. That women should relinquish the role of sacrificer, nurturer, and martyr (i.e. the toxic gender roles that have been placed upon women). That we should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:00 PM
12

Point out exactly where in my above comment I said “we should base our relationships off of how a person looks” please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 06:43 PM
1

These books are not at all about manipulating men. If that’s your opinion of them, all the better that you actually read them. Especially if you plan on discontinuing your current role of being the underappreciated woman who is looked over by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 07:08 AM
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Keep your options open or you will get too emotionally pinned down and manipulated. At the very least have two men on rotation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 02:44 AM
5

You just need to start with a clean slate. Nothing you can do about past lovers. This sub showed me two very valuable books, The Rules and Why Men Love Bitches. Read them, internalize their lessons, and start applying them to your dating world from now forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 02:42 AM
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I agree with some of the other posters. You should never initiate the chasing. If he was into you he’d ask you out. Men aren’t afraid to ask for what they want. If he hasn’t it’s because you haven’t caught his fancy. On the clock or not, when a man sees a woman he really wants he will find a way. He will likely take your number if you offered it. It would be out of politeness because food service workers are obligated to be polite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 01:17 AM
1

Girl, latin dance will make you feel like a goddess. See if there are want salsa or bachata classes near you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 08:25 PM
7

Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:47 AM
1

Gold worthy comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:07 AM
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Dayum girl this was me three weeks ago. Delete his number and contact info. Go to the club with your friends. Dance with men, get numbers, never chase, be coy, be flirty. Drop the loser. Men must peruse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:06 AM
5

I second this. Learn something new. Go out and socialize. I recently took up latin dance classes and my confidence has skyrocketed since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 09:59 AM
43

Perfect response sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 09:56 AM
5

Damn that is messed up. Pink pill asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 09:55 AM
3

Mine is coming in the mail Friday 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 02:38 AM
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Legit. You’re doing yourself a disservice by orbiting one male while dating. The man you’re gushing over is texting six different women and has three tabs of pornography open on his internet browser. His crusty ass has likely not exfoliated in years and leaves his underwear all over his apartment instead of in his clothes basket. Don’t romanticize these fools. Don’t give them shit until they’ve proven their value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 10:19 PM
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I was thinking photo verification would include a specific command for a photo. Or maybe a photo of several feminine items that only women have. I know r/br*akingdad has a process like that right now. The vetting would exclude new users, but that would be the price of keeping men out. Maybe not for this sub, but if an off shoot is ever created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 09:35 PM
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Second comment is straight up vile. Men don't even see you as human ladies. You're just an objectified piece of flesh. Use them for whatever the hell you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 08:28 PM
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Stay away from white male weebs. They are a hard left swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 06:43 PM
3

Damn you described my relationship with my ex, only replace gamer with “artist who doesn’t actually do any art”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 07:05 AM
4

Some of the female-only Discord severs require photo verification coupled with a vetting of their account history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 03:45 AM
3

Dang she hasn’t posted in over 40 days :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 11:58 PM
18

Right, because a woman can't invest in her appearance while also having a great career, hobbies, interests, and a large group of friends, right? Beauty and success aren't mutually exclusive, correct? Dick is both cheap and easily accessible. No intelligent woman is ever going to be desperate for it. Ladies, thank god we have this absolute winner who spends his time posting on r/runescape, r/memes, r/mgtow and r/neckbeardnests to mainsplain to our teeny tiny female brains, teehee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 07:09 PM
9

A Magic Wand will satisfy you more than a man ever can tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:49 PM
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A wise woman on the street once told me, “Men are like buses. There’s always another one coming.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:47 PM
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Translation: "I'm a crusty, unmoisturized male who can't afford a woman who takes care of herself.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:38 PM
2

I hope you got up and left immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:21 PM
5

What part of “no men” in the rules do you not understand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:18 PM
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Up your standards ladies. You’re out here buying fashionable clothes, taking care of your skin, hitting the gym, getting a manicure and you’re going to date some crusty, unmoisturized, broke moid with no job? Love yourself ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:15 PM
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I hope the men lurking on this sub are offended. Rule #1 of this sub is no scrotes. This isn’t a place for us to coddle men’s feelings and walk on eggshells. We have to do that in everyday life already. This is a place for female to talk openly about our issues. They can fuck off to MGTOW or some another shithole sub where they’re wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:12 PM
2

Me too girl. Recently experienced this and it sucked. I don’t have an answer for you. Maybe just pick a man who you find sexually attractive and dependable, but don’t romantically click with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 06:17 AM
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Men forget that there are usually several other men biting at the bit to get their woman’s attention. Most women have a dude (or multiple dudes) at work, school, etc. asking them out and wanting to get their number. Dumbasses need to learn they’re quickly replaceable. Dick is cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 03:27 AM
9

Says the guy who posts in r/PewDiePieSubmissions and r/MensRights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 12:50 AM
5

Fucking loser creep. I hope he never gets laid and his gene pool dies out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 12:00 AM
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Men aren’t allowed on this sub. Leave. Edit; To whoever is downvoting me, read Rule 1 of this sub. This is a female space only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 11:50 PM
9

You should make a master post on this topic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 10:37 PM
7

But when you’re on a date, how do you act exactly? When I like a man I notice I act very different than when a man I’m not interested in is trying to chat me up. Non verbal and verbal cues?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 10:29 PM
2

This poster is a male and posts on MensRights, ban him please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 10:16 PM
8

Great read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 10:12 PM
13

As if I'd have children and resign myself to a lifetime of domestic slavery with a male. Egalitarian housework and childcare doesn't exit in heterosexual relationships. Enjoy your impending ban for continuing to invade female spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 09:37 PM
21

I feel like you essentially need to treat them like you're not interested in them. Especially if you are interested in them. The question is how?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 09:33 PM
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What part of “men aren’t allowed on this sub” do you males not understand? Do you get off on invading female spaces when we explicitly tell you you’re not wanted? What? There’s not enough male spaces for you to tell us your opinions and feelings, so you have to come here and invade female narratives? For fucks sake. Also good job proving men are fucked up. A girl you admit you LIKED decides to tell you she cares for you and you “lose interest” immediately afterwards. Your kind are truly terrible…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 09:14 PM
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Men aren’t allowed on this sub parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 08:55 PM
3

Yessss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 06:54 PM
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Not r/twoxchromosomes. There’s too many men on that sub (wE wElCoMe aLl oPinIoNs) and male apologists. They would cry and downvote it, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 06:52 PM
8

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 09:48 PM
5

Vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 01:06 AM
13

I think we’ve all been there before. You’re dating a guy, getting to know him, and taking it slow. Then, when it finally feels right to have sex, his whole demeanor changes afterwards and you’re left chasing the scraps of his attention. If a man pulls this shit on you thank u, next the motherfucker. Even if your relationship is casual, they shouldn’t treat you and your feelings like shit. It’s a 1-800-His-Fucking-Loss situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 08:24 AM
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I’m sorry sis. I know it freaking hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 06:11 AM
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This is the dumbest fucking thing I’ve ever read. If you see your partner doing all the housework or you see a mess that need to be cleaned up, you fucking do it because you’re an adult. You shouldn’t need to be “asked in a certain way uwu”. As if women should have to be responsible for convincing a full grown man to clean his fucking house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:11 PM
2

Shut up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 08:32 AM
9

Truth. Don’t date people who need you to complete them. Date complete people and secure people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 08:22 AM
8

Me too sis. We need to be better to ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 02:29 AM
7

Going through this right now. I just deleted all his texts and his contact info out of my phone. Still, feels bad man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 06:13 PM
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Look-tiers exist and pointing them out isn’t misogynistic. Neither is the concept of a looks match. Stop throwing that word around in an improper context. You make no fucking sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 04:51 AM
6

Great post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/19 07:41 PM
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Yes! Women are more empathetic, caring, loving, and are givers. Men are NOT like us. As OP said, that is not their default mode. Do not treat a man the way you would a woman or a friend unless you want to get hurt. Be strategic, think of your needs, and protect yo’ heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/19 06:20 PM
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Will not pick you up if you don’t have a car (lazy, selfish with his time). House or car is messy when your presence is pre-planned (slob, be ready to play mommy in your relationship and clean up after him). Constantly brings up is his ex (he’s either not over her or they’re still fucking). Mood shift when you bring up condoms or being tested before sex (unsafe asshole).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/19 06:17 PM
6

Damn hitting me with that truth. Thanks sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/19 03:37 AM
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I miss the days where I thought a man and a woman just liking and appreciating each other made them want each other. Guess if I want romance I’ll have to just read a book lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/19 03:28 AM
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I’m learning this now and it’s so depressing. I’m a hopeless romantic and I guess can’t show any scruple of feeling or care because they’ll peace tf out. Which is against my nature 100%. I learned this the hard way recently and it sucks. I gave a shit about him and tried to comfort him and he ghosts me for days now, lol. Meanwhile dudes I ignore are vying for my attention. This isn’t how I want to live or have my romantic relationships to be. Why can’t we just mutually show affection and that’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 05:55 AM
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I worked, went to school, and cleaned my ex’s apartment by my fucking self. Lazy asshole couldn’t lift a finger to help. Then would get snippy when I’d ask him to buy our groceries. Fucking lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 03:22 AM
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This sub is meant to help us manage demons (men) but there might be some useful information that could relate to female dating too. Just pick and choose what works for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 03:20 AM
7

Lol you’ve been dick-notized. There’s likely nothing extraordinary about this moid. You’ve caught feelings for him and are willing to overlook his obvious faults and are wowed by mediocre gestures that should be performed by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 03:17 AM
1

I. Feel. You. Girl. Someone need smack me upside the head and tell me to stop getting involved with moids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 03:14 AM
3

I need to make this my wallpaper tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/19 03:08 AM
3

Rule 1: This sub is by females, for females ONLY. If you are not female, we are not interested in your opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/19 01:11 AM
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Texting is easy This really hit me because it is easy. And yet, some dick heads will leave me on read for a full day or more. Everyone is glued to their phones these days. There no excuse why you can’t move your fingers and text a girl back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/19 12:44 AM
2

Refer to Rules 1 and 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/19 12:35 AM
1

A man’s number one priority is his dick. This doesn’t vary from man to man unless they’ve been castrated or are asexual. Women need to learn to manage men and their nature safely and effectively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 11:52 PM
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Yes, they are the same, and this sub teaches women how to properly manage males. There are plenty of spaces for your to sympathize with them, but this isn’t it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 11:28 PM
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I know, I’m such a damn sop. Basically he came over for us to have sex (because I am basically in the fuckzone) and he ended up getting soft because of whatever reason. Two days past and I didn’t hear from him, and I was worried he felt embarrassed or bad about it. I texted him saying I wanted to understand where’s he at/if he’s ok and that I wanted to see him again. (I know, what a dumb ass I am). So he responds back, saying he’d be “down to see me again too” (not wants to, would be down to, lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 10:37 PM
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Needed to read this today. Fuck boy is going to leave me on read for a day without responding after I tried to genuinely express I’m concerned for his feelings? I’m so done lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 10:05 PM
1

Damnnnnn. That hit me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 09:59 PM
7

Damn, this is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 09:56 PM
1

Made sympathizer detected. Read Rule #2 is this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 09:40 PM
1

Read Rule #2 of this sub and then GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 09:39 PM
1

Literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 09:33 PM
1

Yep, yes, and correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 06:44 PM
2

This is a Reddit Gold worthy comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 06:38 PM
2

Definitely, and I think a lot the users aren’t reporting them (most are replying and getting into pointless arguments) which is contributing to the problem. We appreciate all the work you’re doing! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 06:19 PM
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Can y’all please just report these men instead of engaging in conversation with them? This sub isn’t for them to “convince us” or tell us “their side”. This is a woman’s space and if they can’t help themselves from chiming in, report then and get the fuckers banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 05:53 PM
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Looool! Not only do men lose their hair, but they take worse care of their bodies. Drinking all that beer, not having a skincare routine, etc. makes them wayyy uglier compared to compared to women their age. We are vigilant about skincare, haircare, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 05:49 PM
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Because men lurk here for whatever reason. Be gone fuck heads, this sub isn’t for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/19 07:53 AM
1

Sorry, truth hurts boyo. Once they roll out the androids equipped with the ability to empathize with a woman’s feelings and be egalitarian with domestic responsibilities, it’s over for your kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/19 07:57 PM
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Men are truly fucked up. They are obsessed with fucking barely legal women. I’ve seen threads and threads of men arguing that a woman’s body peaks at sixteen and naturally sex with them should be allowed. Rich, powerful men are the ones who actually have the means to act out their perverse fantasies of violating children. Most men would rather fuck an extremely young woman, as young as they can legally get away with, than an older woman with more capable sexual experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/19 07:46 PM
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Men are an entirely different species. They’re driven by the desire to get their dicks wet and a woman’s feelings come secondary. Married heterosexual women, especially with children, have been proven to be less happy after marriage to a man. Their quality of life and their health, especially mental health, nose dive after committing to a man. Heterosexual women need to recognize this. Obviously, if women like men and want to fuck them, it’s inevitable that a woman will engage with a man. The ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/19 07:37 PM
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Remember to be on the look out for more than just overtly negative reactions too. They can be subtle, such as passive aggressiveness or manipulation. My ex-boyfriend, when he didn’t get his way, would say everything was fine, but then act extremely passive aggressive or guilt and manipulate me to get his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/19 05:19 PM
3

Because these are things women, especially younger women, need to be aware of. These girls need to always be on guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/19 07:26 AM
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Nah. Every time, every god damn time I’ve been with a guy and thought to myself, “Wow, this one genuinely loves, values, or respects me,” guess what happened? If can be overt as cheating. It can be as subtle as not ever helping you with house work. All men are dogs and each one will start barking eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/19 12:22 AM
3

Thank you, I needed to see this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/19 04:51 AM
3

This is such truth. For anyone doubting whether or not marriage for heterosexual women is the beginning of domestic slavery and emotional labor until the end of time, check our r / breaking mom to take a peek into what life is like for these women. I’ll give you a hint—it’s hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/19 04:48 AM
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