Tips on keeping men at arms length?

normabelka · 2019-09-23T22:03:17+00:00

First always let him initiate, texts, dates, talks about future, where is this going talk, phone calls. While men like the chase, they will not chase you unpurposely. Initiate texts about 20% of time. Be receptive to his efforts to impress you but don’t be afraid to say no if his efforts are very low value. And while you’re on the date try to be yourself and have fun. Also don’t accept last minute dates, date should always be scheduled 48h in advance. When he is love bombing you, with stuff like I miss you, I like you, just reply thanks, don’t reply me too.

throwawayy92838383 · 2019-09-23T21:33:30+00:00

I feel like you essentially need to treat them like you're not interested in them. Especially if you are interested in them. The question is how?

TheOGJammies · 2019-09-23T21:15:30+00:00

Date in multiples:

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d2lg9t/girl_game_pt_1_males_monogamy_and_mateguarding/

Tiramissu_dt · 2019-09-24T19:19:32+00:00

While this is kinda true, am I the only one so sick of this?

RicochetChez · 2019-09-24T16:15:13+00:00

I would make him initiate ALL communication. All of it.

I frequently would book outings with my girlfriends after dates so I had somewhere to go.

CondesendingLimerick · 2019-09-27T05:51:58+00:00

You shouldn't need to keep him chasing you, or you chasing him. Don't worry, be natural, and if you're really in love, go get what you want.

Title	Tips on keeping men at arms length?
Author	throwawayy92838383
Upvotes	16
Comments	11
Date	September 23, 2019 9:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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