Lmao men make me laugh attempting to make us paranoid about 'the wall' or make out our confidence must only come from makeup so we should settle for men with a 4inch limp dick, porn addiction, and a crappy career......and be grateful for it...

Example, a case study:

My mum is mid 40s, and people constantly mistake us for sisters still, she has always looked way younger than her age. My gran doesn't even look particularly bad for her age, but shes in her 70s, so obv looks aged now.

She had a healthy baby at 35 no problems despite all the hoo har. I'd say she is way more settled then when she had me and my sister younger and had immature baby father drama to deal with (she was a teen mum &then again in early 20s). Shes on way better pay now too as a manager. She has slightly less energy now but that's because shes already had 2 kids before my brother & has always been the breadwinner (ANOTHER REASON NOT TO SETTLE, you will become exhausted).

She has 2 degrees and is still considered attractive even with a few wrinkles coming in now and tbh shes probably slightly more toned than me LOL. People always ask me why my mums is with that BETA ugly moid useless damsel in distress partner...and I have no explanation except that she let her cheating ex husbands infidelities get to her esteem (he was average looking/mediocre wage) & decided to 'play it safe' (see how men knock women down). He literally has no attractive qualities except the fact he would STRUGGLE to cheat (he isn't smart, isn't driven, isn't romantic and has the charisma of a potato). Yeah, that shit hasn't paid off for her, she has to be the man and THE woman of the house. She is constantly nagging him to do shit and playing mommy to him. Its sad, but she won't leave because of the 'fears' society have drum into her. I zone out everytime she moans about him...this is why womens standards matter.

I'm currently mid 20s, so that gives me a nice sweet decade if I want to have a child, which I'm not exactly gagging for anyway. I still might opt for the sperm bank/adoption. Seeing my mum, and other women struggle around me is exactly why I refuse to settle.

My mum had plenty of things she could of taken advantage of, like her looks, finances, figure and education...but didn't. She let the cheating scoundrel shrink her self worth. And for what? The beta that 'seemed' safe and nice in the beginning stages of dating has turned out to be just as as self absorbed and lazy as any other 'chad', except hes gotten a more attractive more competent partner to leach off. Neither of them are happy however.

SO WHAT IS THIS WALL I'M MEANT TO BE SCARED OF? You should be scared of the reality of settling, thats far more fucking frightening.

Sorry moids, I got time. I refuse to settle, and I don't tend to do shit by the book anyway.. I never obsessed over rushing down the isle in my mid 20s. Consolidating everyone life journeys into these strict timelines is ridiculous. Some of you may meet your soul mate at 33. And contrary to what moids think, most women look better than men at 35, we also have solid skincare regimes and generally take better care of our health/appearances.. and we are outrunning them in education etc.