I’ve recently joined, and this sub has opened my eyes so much.

I got my heart broken very recently by a guy who I thought was my friend (of 3+ years) and I was so excited to date. I dropped all my defences with him and he immediately turned cold after sex. This sub has made me realise that AMALT and I need to completely change my strategy.

Personal sob story aside, it’s frustrating to see the posts that are helping me being constantly downvoted! My fear is that people are put off from posting this good advice - which I badly need. Clearly this is what the incels/TRP guys want.

Mods?