i'm super shy and introverted and when i had a cute waiter at a restaurant, i didn't say anything to him other than order my food, i wanted to give him my number but i just kept thinking of all the ways i would be embarrassed if it went wrong like if he had a girlfriend or if he wasn't attracted to me and i didn't want to put him in an uncomfortable position since he was just doing his job. i also don't even know how i would approach the situation of giving him my number. i just felt too shy and embarrassed to do anything but now i'm regretting it and thinking of going back to the restaurant and growing the balls to give him my number this time. i don't pursue guys like this anymore because i always like knowing a guy is interested in me and will go after me, but it seems like even if he did like me he wouldn't be able to get my number while he is working so the only option is for me to give it to him but i don't know how to get over my fear of rejection or even how to approach the situation. help