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Another Reason to Never Feel for Bad Ghosting: Men Think They Should Be Able to Ghost Their Child if They “Don’t Feel Like” Raising it

TheOGJammies

September 2, 2019

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Title	Another Reason to Never Feel for Bad Ghosting: Men Think They Should Be Able to Ghost Their Child if They “Don’t Feel Like” Raising it
Author	TheOGJammies
Upvotes	0
Comments	40
Date	September 2, 2019 11:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/cywzhh/another_reason_to_never_feel_for_bad_ghosting_men/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/another-reason-to-never-feel-for-bad-ghosting-men.690690 https://theredarchive.com/post/690690

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[+]iconto66 6 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

I read a story on confession a while ago about a man getting, no joke, THREE women pregnant, and saying he was gonna run off to join the military so he didn’t have to take responsibility. All the men in the comments were consoling him and saying how it was a hard decision to make and wishing him good luck, saying they would do the same. I wrote a comment telling him he was pathetic, etc and I got downvoted to shit and replies defending him and calling me a bitch. Poor moids and their fee-fees.

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[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist[S] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago* (19 children) | Copy Link

No, you don’t understand my frustration, first of all. And surprise surprise a man has decided that my assessment of the male sex is incorrect, based on absolutely nothing but a desire to be dismissive of women’s lived experience.
The mere fact that there is a forum called the RedPill that’s half a million strong and so pervasive and influential it’s become part of our cultural lexicon ought to tell you the Males ain’t shit. I mean men are literally taking up arms and mobilizing against us and gunning women down for no fucking reason other then you’re own inflated sense of self importance and you think I’m the hateful one?
It’s not hate, it’s self preservation in response to irrational male terrorism. See #2 for proof. Actually, see every single society at every level in every country from the top down for literally centuries for proof.
Have you seen reddit? Millions of men united with the common goal of the abuse of women.

So in conclusion, fuck you and the horse you rode in on.

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[–]MangoJayne-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

As a female, I understand where you're coming from, but the point made was valid. Not every guy is like this. A lot, yes. Although, you can argue that the ones who aren't are more secluded in more ways than one so it's hard to have an accurate depiction of how many men are just respectful people who don't care about gender. I would imagine that it would make a person sad to see their gender being generalized, as it makes me sad when I witness misogyny. I'm not saying your personal view is invalid or underserved, as an opinion, but it just simply is not fact. I hope my comment isn't upsetting, I don't want to be a dick to anyone, I just also don't want anyone to be a bigot.

Like, Idk what the removed comments said about race, but let's compare it to racism. White people being racist to black people is a problem, even with all the headway, racism exists, systematic racism exists, neonatzi groups and the kkk exist. It's obviously, the problem, so to speak.

However, black people can be racist to white people. It's not an issue the way the reverse is, but it still happens. That white kid goes to a school full of black kids, and gets bullied for being white. So, did that kid deserve to get bullied?

The answer, obviously, is no, because racism is never okay. So we take that example, and talk about sexism.

Men have ruled the world for years, and us women have finally gotten a voice in the last fifty or so. It's getting better, but systematic sexism exists. Government officials try to maintain as much control over women as they can. Constantly we're reminded with jokes and slights that we are often viewed as the weaker sex, the gentler sex, as less than. That's not okay.

Again, though, if you reverse it, even though men don't go through what we go through, like how white people do not have the same experience as people of colour, it's not okay to generalize, identify someone's thoughts and actions solely on a physical part of them, and attack them for something out of their control.

I'm sorry about your personal experience, I'm sorry it hasn't been better. I am so sorry for you that you have had shitty people in your life, because that just sucks. I genuinely hope you, and everyone else honestly, has the chance to meet good people that will remind you of the happy things in the world.

The fact of the matter, though, is that men are born men. That's out of their control. We can't pick our parents, the people that teach us how to be people. Unfortunately systematic sexism is an infectious concept, bred through generations, but not every family has those ideals. Not every father teaches his son that women are below him. Some people are just better than others, because that's how life goes.

I'm sorry for this extremely lengthy comment, but I'm hoping it might give you a more optimistic outlook of what you could find out there. A lot of people are shit. Seriously. That, however, is men and women. People are just shit, lol. There's someone for everyone, though, and I wish everyone the best of luck finding their someone, and leaving all the shit people behind.

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