Why some woman who is compatible with me in every way except being each other type doesn't even talk to me or has more than 5 minutes for small talk, while some other, that I'm visibly bored with and don't try to say anything clever talks first? (And no, she isn't DTF either, tried many times).

I usually get plates that are more crazy than not, so I crave conversations with normal, smart women - why I can't get these to talk with me? Is this some particular problem with me or is it just how the world works?