Original post incase you haven't read it and have a LOT of time on your hands:https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/11tvihs/ive_been_accused_by_two_people_i_thought_were_my/?sort=confidence(You don't really need to read it you can kind of gain the rough outline of what happened with this post)
So I had an idea. I was falsely accused of terrible things (namely sexual harassment, regular harassment and "the intention of murder" (whatever the fuck that means))And well...It has had some consequences on my school life. A friend of mine told me some of his friends called me a rapist and tried to convince him to ditch me and I was actually confronted by two people in the bathroom recently. All is well now I guess they said they'd leave me alone but the looming feeling of everyone thinking I'm a rapist is fucking me up. I need to bring the two cunts responsible to justice. At first I thought this a fruitless indevor but I've since amassed a...considerable ammount of evidence against them. I'm going to name them here and I'd just like some of you to tell me whether it's a good idea or the dumbest you've ever heard. Trust me I've gotten both reactions often.I'D ALSO LIKE TO MENTION SOMETHING: I was planning on making this post later but yesterday I got a message from someone about my last post and I fucking ignored it like an idiot accidentally. If you're seeing this, sir...Please send it back it was actually cool.With all that out of the way, this is a list of the evidence I've ammased SO FAR:
- A screenshot of Anne (kind of) admitting she was verbally abusing me and also implied the reason being my former romantic interest in her (which she would later refute) This is tough evidence because she would later claim her mother wrote those messages but went on to tell me her mother said what she wanted to tell me. So I suppose it still counts
-A (semi) reliable witness. He is a close friend of mine but used to hang out with her as well and witnessed her messages to me when she admitted she was being "mean" and outright said the reason was because of my former romantic interest.
-Two more witnesses who I asked to listen in to some of our conversations to see the extent of her rudities and they told me they noticed she was incredibly rude to me and I was above and beyond kind (at least compared to the way I treated other people)
-A screenshot of the "traumatizing" image (a meme with a cat with an airsoft gun to it's head) with proof I sent a message telling her I sent it accidentaly and proof that it's as idiotic of an accusation as can be.
-Proof she purposefully spread false rumors about me in an attempt to ruin my reputation and proof it had serious concequences.
-My own memory of many of her lies (Probably not going to be believed but hey at least I know more than anyone just how much of an asshole she really is)
For anyone wondering about "Amy". The only evidence I have that she lied is my own sharp memory (seriously I can name SO MANY details) and one witness who doesn't really want to be involved who knows she's lying.
But here's the problem: I am so scared of doing this. I'm not going to bring her to court but I might tell the principal about this and show her my evidence. But in doing so I would be admitting I sent a message to her after she told me not to. Which could sink me.But another hurdle are just my second thoughts. My doubts. If I do this, and I win, she'll most likely get kicked out of the school and will have a hard time getting into any schools there after. It could RUIN her life if she's unlucky. And well...I don't know if I can do that. I don't know if it's right to meet an evil with an even greater evil. But then again it was pity and giving her a chance that got me into this. Because I felt bad for her and she took advantage of that to manipulate me. I'm having a hard time going through with this, I'm hoping I can negotiate with the principal to keep her in the school, I hate her sure but I truly can't live with myself giving her a punishment she might not deserve. Maybe it's just because I used to love her but I just can't bring myself to do this.
So I'm asking a few questions here: Is it worth it? Is it too risky? And most importantly would I become the bad guy they saw me as? Is this really a good idea?
It's not about revenge anymore. I can't let them get away with this and spread. I can't let them do this to another poor guy. This is a matter of justice. But I can't stop shaking from the fear this might have concequences too vast for me to handle.
I'd also like to remind about the bit about the message I got from the start of the post.
Anyways...What do you think?
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