Older women say in surveys that they find older men most attractive because women are vain and prefer to be the prettier, younger part in the relationship CMV

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Gigamon2014 · 2022-09-08T12:52:35+00:00

Whilst I agree with the sentiment, the CMV angle from me comes from the fact that I don't actually believe older women desire older, worse looking men. If anything, I've seen the opposite. Older women who largely regret "giving a chance" to uglier men who now want to experience a younger, more physically attractive and virile man. Its also why I can never fully get on board with the "AFBB" thing. Incels and redpillers complaints largely stem from thier inability to act. Of anything, I notice a lot of young women are heavily sceptical of "Chads" and often are weary of the sexual advances of physically attractive men. I notice older women actually tend to not give a fuck a lot of the time as they've matured and carry less insecurities as they did in their youth.

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