my mother is being completely an idiot sexist

onlyidiotsgoonreddit · 2022-08-29T16:50:50+00:00

She sounds like a user. She uses people. That's her game. She will use you, too, if you let her. Don't let her use you.

SuperSupremeKai · 2022-08-29T17:04:13+00:00

She maybe a piece of shit in your eyes, but she's still your mother and she loves you (at least more than the average woman walking down the street).

Her claim of "A father can never love his child like a mother" is true, even when the genders are flipped, since each sex loves things and other people in different ways and for different reasons.

Her claim of "a man will never get sad breaking up with you" can be interpreted in many ways, including:

Projection. She was dumped and discarded so many times she decided to just flat out tell you what happened in a roundabout way. (Seeing that she cheated...)
Life lesson. She's essentially saying "this is gonna happen to you at some point." Could be true, especially if you're with a heartless man (which I take it you don't think your current BF is)
Undermining your self-esteem. Which no mother should do since it will open her daughter up for more manipulation and control.

I don't know much about your culture, but she does since she lived and grew up with it. What do you expect a Turkish mother to do when you just bring in an European who doesn't care about doing what she thinks the role of the man in her culture is?

She'll find ways to either break him into it since its the only way of life she ever knew, or she will subtly attempt to break the two of you since she sees that you're not getting what a woman is supposed to get in a relationship, according to your culture.

This isn't really her fault (her real fault is not being open minded) but when the culture expects men to gift material wealth to women, she obviously wants that for you since 1) she got and still gets gifts from your father (why should your partner be any different?) and 2) you getting gifts is better for you and your finances (right?)

2022-08-30T09:31:21+00:00

Nabıyon gız buralarda

billsull_02842 · 2022-09-01T22:09:05+00:00

she sounds like a loving spoiled prostitute

kevin_bb88 · 2022-09-02T22:07:00+00:00

you're old enough to tell your father what your mother did. why not tell your father now. if she told you not to tell him, you're old enough to let her deal with the consequences of her actions. this real man shit that women spout just shows how entitled and obnoxious women really are. now. save your dad and tell him the truth about her. and let him deal with her in his own way and get out of there if you want to save your relationship with your boyfriend, because he ill eventually get fed up with your mother and will break up with you.

Title	my mother is being completely an idiot sexist
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Upvotes	15
Comments	10
Date	August 29, 2022 9:31 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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