And for the devil's due, yes, feminism has caused an enormous amount of unnecessary suffering for men and women, maybe more than any ism-prior. Just keep your eyes of the prize of bringing down the feminist lie of patriarchy and the one of womens iherent helplessness or damseling, if you will, before you project your personal problems anywhere. Also yes, there's more shit to feminism, but at least start with understanding these two.

While you're at it, make sure to dismiss the beggars of question, the true believers, those who appeal to hypocrisy or power, and of course the trolls.

Remember always that feminism is an institution of the motte and the bailey.