I've had it happen multiple times now that I'd have a girl back at my place or I'm back at hers and I just lock up due to hesitation in escalating further. Had a number of times we were both in her bed nude and I was too hesitant to push further - especially with girls who are generally more passive.

Has anyone experienced this before? I dont understand why I keep locking up and need some direction in where to start. The rest of my game (approaching, rapport building, getting them in my apt/bed) is pretty solid, but the most important part isn't