Hey, newbie here, been trying to swallow the pill from about the beginning of the summer and I think I’m starting to get better but I sill lack « skills » in parts such as calibrations.

Being a virgin (when talking to girls I get « boyfriend-zoned »), I’m looking for FWB’s so I try being more sexual verbally (I already kino a lot). My problem lies in the fact that I take alot EVERY opportunity to turn what a girl tell me into something sexual. A girl called me out on it last time, telling me that I talked about sex everytime we saw each other (once a week) and that it showed how I hadn’t sex. I handled it quit poorly on my opinion by trying to pressure flip by saying that it wasn’t my fault if she had a dirty mind.

The other part of calibration where I’m bad is teasing. Again, I think I do too much, I will start teasing the girl and then she’ll be all butthurt about it.

So, my question is : How can I learn to calibrate better ? And don’t give off that virgin vibe when talking sexually with girls ? (For that, maybe the fact that we’re high schooler around the age of 16 plays a part)

(I’m French so if some things I wrote are badly said, that’s kind of « normal »)