After coming out of the closet and beginning to date guys, I have been alienated by some of my peers (fine) but other guys have caused me problems by pushing me around, getting aggressive over being into guys. I am a pretty conservative community so it's not rare to experience this.

I am bulking quickly, and increasing my strength significantly but aside from this how can I work on my verbal game and social game to defend myself?

I also plate women but they don't seem to mind as long as I hold frame and show masculine traits, which I'm good at.