Current girl I've been seeing for a year and a half calls herself "poly". We have a decent relationship, we hang out just for fun, sex happens often enough, she also has a girlfriend and another boyfriend. Sex happens with them too, not really relavant to me. Cheating isn't a thing that happens, we pretty openly brag to each other when we have sex.

I am of course free to do my own thing; read, grow, follow my goals, have sex with whoever I want, that kind of shit. I like living this way, as I often feel like I get to have the best parts of a LTR (at the cost of a few limitations, such as we are both allowed to veto potential partners within reason) and also have some spare plates from time to time. Also, threesomes are a thing?

I'm aware this shit isn't standard, but I feel like it could be compatible with most RP ideas. I realize most guys are never going to be able to get over "your girl" sleeping with another dude especially, but to me It's just another exercise in keeping frame. Should the alpha really give a shit aside from from following his own direction and getting his dick wet? Dating multiple girls at once, you are forced to give you recources judiciously and never fall into nice guy provider routines. Your time is always valuable, and you are permanently preselected.