How to convince gf I don't just want her for sex

Big_Red_suppository · 2018-01-04T02:33:46+00:00

Do other shit with her?

Y'all can't be that boring. Or if you don't want to do other things with her consider finding someone who you would like to get out and do things with.

DiscordantMonk · 2018-01-04T17:07:32+00:00

Has she been complaining that you just want to fuck all the time?

[deleted] · 2018-01-04T17:35:24+00:00

First, why would you want to lie to her or otherwise deceive or manipulate her?

Those issues from women are shit tests anyway. The issue isn't what you want but what she wants. What she's obliquely telling you is that the only thing she's getting out of this is sex and she wants more. It's up to you to see if she's worth it or not.

Assuming you think she's worth it, don't be a fool and think that what she wants is commitment. What she wants is more tingles before, during and after sex. Commitment might do that--for a while, but you'll be right back to this situation.

You simply aren't exciting enough for her and being with you simply isn't giving her enough. Fix that. Ideally by becoming more exciting and socially visual.

Title	How to convince gf I don't just want her for sex
Author	user7373739
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	January 4, 2018 2:06 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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