Too late to be an asshole to her, what do I do now?

vandaalen · 2018-01-04T12:18:47+00:00

So not encouraging your partner to go and swallow strange guys' loads has now suddenly become "act like an asshole"?

Why are you wasting your commitment to a cheap slut? Why are you emotionally invested? Bitches like that are available at every corner and tinder is filled with them.

quicklogaccount · 2018-01-04T13:01:24+00:00

Go douche, it's not "too late" for that. Bear in mind the good side of being a douche is being extremely dominant though.

Some other thoughts are, you're possessive about a woman on an open relationship with you. You see, this can't go well.

jay_jay_man · 2018-01-04T12:06:37+00:00

Read the Sex God Method. What you interpret as douchebaggery is actually dominance.

ripped

physically dominant

only talks about fucking her

dirty talk, leading the conversation, and tells her exactly what he want - dominant behavior

One important point, Open relationship is fine - so long as you are not the beta provider.

Beta Provider = money, commitment (marriage), living with her, listening to her problems, taking her out, etc.

If you do these things, she must NEVER have sex with other men. You are buying sex and commitment.

If you're just having sex with her, AND with other women, then it's all fine and she can do what she wants when she's not around you.

[deleted] · 2018-01-04T16:03:54+00:00

I think you answered your own question at the end of your post. Get in shape? You already should be. Talk to other girls? You’re in an open relationship. You should be. To me, an open relationship is a step above a FWB. Play it as such.

Jealousy is probably the most common tactic women use with men. It sounds like it’s working. Become the man who other women want to be with and who guys want to be. You’ll naturally become less jealous because you can walk away and get other girls.

Also, it sounds like things have become regular in the bedroom. Time to get dirty! Look into making a girl squirt.

rp_flyingfuck · 2018-01-04T17:45:02+00:00

stop with the bp sex and start doing some rp shit - from my experience every girl likes it rough as long as you slowly introduce her to it.

some easy steps you can introduce:

-be dominant -dirty talk -hair pulling (while dirty talking) -spank her ass (also while dirty talking)

one thing will lead to another and as long as you are doing enough dirty talk she will want to get it harder and harder and sex will become better and better

remember that sex for women is what happens in their head

with my last gf i had bp sex for half a year where she didn't liked it rough. after slowly becoming more dominant and most important talking her into it she begged me at the end to spank her as hard as i could and choke her till she nearly passed out

[deleted] · 2018-01-05T04:53:23+00:00

You are an obvious cuckold, but trying to frame the story like some open relarionshop. I think you know what to do here

Title	Too late to be an asshole to her, what do I do now?
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Date	January 4, 2018 11:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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