Yeah, yeah I know "never shit where you eat" but I didn't even know about TRP back then and thought I had found a great and hot girl at the time.

We hit it off pretty well but after a few months the gut feeling was right and she was carrying massive baggage from an abusive ex-bf and never really moved on from him and even their families were into the shitshow. The drama and what she did to me has no words but I would take an entire day to write everything that happened so why bother now.

Anyway, I just want OUT of the entire deal but I have her or Facebook, Hangouts, Whatsapp and her sisters have my number as well. We're not on the same team but we work in the same office so we see each other every day. Should I just delete and block her from everything and pretend she doesn't exist?

Do the soft and hard next concepts work here?