One of the triggers, or red pill moments, for me is working with a very nice guy who it turns out was about to go to jail for child and spousal support. Problem is he didn’t marry the woman and the child was from a previous relationship. He was slow to pay not because he didn’t want to but because he couldn’t. Money was running out.

She on the other hand took over his condo all the contents and raided a joint checking account. Once your antenna is up to this reality you absolutely see women differently.

This monster destroyed over ten years of his life and to this day, her and others like her, are one of the triggers for me to post.

I want to hear more stories. Get out of the Shame spiral.

You deserve a great life.

Because you’re worth it.