First encounter this coming weekend after taking in TRP.

rico_montoya · 2014-03-05T03:22:25+00:00

Yeah. Hang out with her tonight. You're too invested in this fairy tale you've concoted for her on the weekend.

Rub one out before you meet her. And have her meet you later, mid-evening, so you subtly convey she's not a priority. Do something foolish and atypical. Roll a couple joints and meet her at the park. Go on the swings, hold her hand, take her for a walk, finger blast her under the stars. She's just another chick looking for a good time.

gt35r · 2014-03-05T01:34:42+00:00

Fellow recovering beta here. Well, omega really.

First step is to remove your nervousness. You need to get your mind in the right frame. Right now you're focused on "don't fuck it up, I want to bang this girl to next Tuesday." Shake that off. Girls can smell that desperation a mile away. You need to do whatever it takes to remove your outcome dependence. What works for me to feel like this is listening to specific kinds of music. I listen to Hail to the King and This Means War by Avenged Sevenfold. Whenever I have a good day at work and want to feel better, I listen to Hail to the King. Almost puts me in the mindset of: "They're singing about me. I'm a fucking king." Once you have that in place, proceed to step 2.

Step 2 is to remove your outcome dependence. You don't need to fuck this chick. Fucking her would be great for everyone involved, but if not, you need to enjoy yourself anyway. You're going to get some drinks and a bite to eat, so order something you like and enjoy it. You already got this chick to say yes to going out, and that's usually the hardest part. Feel content with what you have already.

Step 3 is to remove the trace of oneitis that you have for this chick. I can sense it slightly. You know too much about her previous boyfriend (i.e. how long they dated, why they broke up, etc., etc.). This says to me that either a) this chick has had you orbited for a little while or b) you Facebook stalked her and know too much about her life already. Remember that outcome independence. She's just like any other chick.

Step 4 is to become knowledgeable on how to deal with LMR (Last Minute Resistance). Since she just broke up with her boyfriend, she might be a little hesitant to sleep with someone else in fear of feeling like a slut. If she pulls that card, you have two options. First is to tell her to get out and you aren't playing around. You don't have time for her bullshit. If you feel like you can pull off option two, go for it. Option two is to mitigate that fear for her. "I don't know, we just met and blah, blah, blah." Work on the hot spots and try again later. I hate Daniel Tosh, but he has a good quote. "If 'no' really meant 'no', then every man would die a virgin. No doesn't mean no. No means 'work on the neck, the nipples, try again in 5 minutes.'" If she clearly wants you to stop, then stop. I'm not saying to rape the chick. If she's coy and playful about it, you know she's pulling a shit test.

Hopefully this has helped.

Title	First encounter this coming weekend after taking in TRP.
Author	gt35r
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	March 5, 2014 12:18 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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