I have been seeing a girl at work who has a boyfriend and we had really hit it off, hugging and kissing at work, texting outside of work and getting lunch more and more often.

We were supposed to meet for lunch today, but when I told her the place and time she ghosted me for several hours and then when the time we were supposed to meet came, she texted that she was sorry for not getting back with me and that she would be available on 3 other specific dates, all of which I am working or busy. She keeps track of my schedule and definitely knows this.

So she is either going nuclear or this is a massive shit test. I did not respond to her test, however, I'm not quite sure how to respond to this.

I think that the reason for this is because I've been teasing her less and I've been getting more affectionate, trying to mirror her level of interest. This must have been the mistake.

I'm sure this is a common shit test, any advice is appreciated