If we reverse the genders and apply the same definition to women, it makes female "incels" more common than male "incels", though provoking that hating men is quite normalized and even encouraged in women eh? so much that many women do it unapollogetically and it is even portrayed as empowering and liberating. Im okay if women dont trust me by default just because im a man, trust has to be earned, but everyone has to earn it, not just men, remember that if someone tries to gaslight you or brainwash you if you dont trust a woman by default, most women dont even fully trust the men they re in relationships with no matter how much of a good guy they are.